A gender ignorant world... is that really funky?

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

No, honey... they are there and that is the right way...

There are so many cis* men out there who are just afraid to choose what they really want. It takes time to educate them and to make them feel at ease with them selves.

I'm rare, in as much that I didn't keep my new-found love a secret - I actually screamed it out loud because I was proud of it... proud of finding myself. And nothing makes me more warm and proud and strong and everything than holding my sweet trans-woman close to me. It's a bond... it's like being HOME. I hope I make sense...

I may have lost my ability to truly commit - maybe because I've been too much of a bloody playboy, but my deep, deep love for THAT trans-woman remains, and eventually I will find her and live with her ever after.

But the thing is, that I cannot be less picky. I cannot in all fairness say that being a trans-woman gives her a "free ride" (excuse my French). Yes, I want a trans-woman, but i also want a life partner who can match me and with whom I can truly enjoy all aspects of living.

I expect as much from a trans-woman as I do from a non-trans-woman - her transsexuality is divine, but in the end creating a relationship is based on total mutual mental and sexual attraction. In the end no-one can build a relationship solely based on her or his gender identificatition.

But you're still my Goddess, Missy B :-)

Kisses!

H

Obviously there are guys who have the pluck to make a real go of a relationship. But, and you have to admit, the number of curious guys willing to say whatever it takes and/or guys who genuinely THINK they know what they want is way more than those who "get it" and can/will try to make it work.

Standards shouldn't be lowered because a woman is Trans*. By all means there are some issues that trans* women have socially that her guy will have to share with her, and that may make for some consideration. But folks need to "click" and be compatible and all that.

And... sorry if I sounded sulky above. I was just pointing out that the number of GG/TG relationships that last more than a week, and are serious FAR greater than guy/trans.