Condoms whilst fucking shemales?

[mobiryder]

Originally Posted by padeligne

with my girlfriend-ladyboy i am barebacking of course. when i was still wild and doing my bit to sustain the economy of thailand,, i always used a condom.

you guys available for a threesome? i'm in BKK

[inadaze]

so whats the furthest people who practice 'safe' sex will go ?


swallowing semen ? or holding it in the mouth and tasting ?
facials , having cum sprayed on the outside of each others bodies, mixing 2 sources of cum ? etc etc

How safe are these practices ?

[ginger]

excellent post in a daze, anybody who practices these things on regular basis care to respond?

[hankhavelock]

Barebacking for me! Of course, I have a steady gf, so I guess that makes sense. But would I let her bareback me if I knew she was HIV+? Yes, I would. Any time! We did have vast amounts of un-safe sex before we got tested (both neg), and none of us could truly be sure of our HIV-status due to the fact that both of us had barebacked before - a lot. I realize this may sound crazy to most people, but barebacking and accepting what ever the other would deliver was an erotic rush as well as an expression of love. I clearly remember the first time Fi came in me and I thought: Maybe she's passing HIV on to me... and I felt a deep passion, belonging to her and love! It was totally awesome!

[ginger]

Hank, in theory, I can dig what your saying. But, I have a whole life i would like to live, and you should really reconsider your stance if you are not in a monogamous relationship. Like all relationships, one with a t-girl can end. then what? You are stuck with HIV and no one to share you life with.........would you knowingly give this dreaded disease to someone else? that is not love. In fact, i think it is a very bad thing to do..........

[mobiryder]

hank.. i love you MAN!

[inadaze]

That reminds me of this article which some groups have called a myth but is probably true:

http://aids.about.com/od/safersexres...arebacking.htm

This story has been used by conservative groups on extreme right wing websites to condemn gays and TS lovers further. Although Hank I realise you are in a relationship. But for someone like me who is single I need to find a level of activity I feel comfortable with. I was recently tested and came up zero for eveything. I ve never had a std/sti in my life. So the question is really important for me as I dont want to get one at this stage of my life. Is some form of std/sti unavoidable when dealing with semen ?

So can anyone else address my questions ?