the psychology of what it is to like ladyboys

[Mel Asher]

Originally Posted by bepitan

not wishing to distract from other possibly similar threads but i want to to take a more objective view on this subject.

not to know what it is you like but to dig deeper into why you like it.

now i would guess from the a lot of posts on this forum myself included that we do not get turned on by men.

but we do appreciate women but not as much as ladyboys.

now for sake of argument take this hypothetical scenario of an attractive genetic woman having an operation to have a penis grafted onto her.

now who out there would want to go with this woman?? for me personally i would have to say an absolute no way!!.

so logically the attraction of ladyboys for me isn't what they are now but the fact that they used to be a man!

for me personally even the notion that the girl that i was about to have sex with could have been a boy like me playing football in their younger years on the same soccer field is a huge turn on.

and somehow it all focuses on the penis..like its the remaining facet of who they were.

but its not as simple as that because i now look back to heterosexual relationships.

a man wants to connect to a woman so they can become one. The man wants to experience the woman in every possible way.

well for me that relationship still exists but it is with a ladyboy. I want to become one with a person that experienced that transition.

Its the idea of a sexual transition from man to woman that excites me and attracts me to that person.. a ladyboy.

so enough of my ramblings....what is your take on the reasons behind why you like ladyboys??

Come on Bepitan - it would take a medical miracle of modern surgery to achieve a penis graft onto a genetic femal, one that functioned fully sexually that is. As far as I'm aware f2m surgical techniques are still a long way from achieving success in that direction, never mind the dual plumbing problems. Nor do I think it's likely in the forseeable future, as the f2m transgender operation is all about enabling a man born into a woman's body without the male equipment to realise in part some sort of sexual peace of mind, eg. to alleviate the unfair physical handicap of no penis-no balls.

Now sexual dreams about f2m and participating - well they're quite different.
So, if that's your thing or something somewhat different, then like all of us here on the forum, dream on ! !

[ocinteeni]

The fact that a t-girl has gone through the transition is a turn-on in the sense that it shows me that the t-girl really is absolutely determined on expressing her femininity to the fullest. So the fact that a t-girl is so in tune with her sexuality that they can take a genetically male body and transform into the most feminine expression of human sexuality is an unbelievable turn-on.

Also the fact that to most 2-dimensional minded people beleive the penis absolutely equals man and the vagina absolutely equals woman is shattered by all the beautiful t-girls is a turn on to me. Those are the psychological turn ons for me.

So I don't agree that its a turn on simply because she was once a boy/guy because a t-girl never really was a boy/guy she just simply had the appearance of a genetic male. Even genetic females have to work to express femininity, so I am also really attracted to genetic girls who are really in tune with their femininity and express it to the fullest, I just happen to prefer girls with cocks.

[kuroshinzo666]

Originally Posted by ocinteeni

Also the fact that to most 2-dimensional minded people beleive the penis absolutely equals man and the vagina absolutely equals woman is shattered by all the beautiful t-girls is a turn on to me. Those are the psychological turn ons for me.

this is geting some where to a point that in all retrosepect.
has no final just soultion. if androgany amounts towards something is that all men and ...for what i under stand women what to indule themselves in something beatiful and attractive. the acutal sex of that person is irrevent.
....though people lately have be calling me shallow,superfaical,and empthy.
the pyscholocal aspect of this ranges form person to person.

[The_Void]

For me, it's just a purely physical thing. From an emotional standpoint, I'm completely bi/pansexual, I don't really care about gender in any form. But I find feminine women very sexually attractive, to a much larger extent than men. I do find men hot, but not as often. I do like cocks though. I like the look, the feel of them, I like them in my arse, etc. So my liking for transsexual porn is a purely physical thing, the fact that there is a very beautiful, feminine woman with a cock for me to enjoy gets me very sexually excited.

In an actual relationship though, I wouldn't care if my partner was born male or female, or has transitioned since, or whatever. It's just a sexual thing.