SHEMALE -V- FEMALE Who wins? You decide! (Have girls had their day)

[Ogryn1313]

I'll be honest, I've never been with a shemale, tgirl, or whatever the term is. But for many years I have had a mild interest in them which has now grown into a full blown desire.
Now, I love women. Sadly they don't return the feeling. There's alot to love about them. Sexually, I love the pussy. I love to go down on a girl. I'm kind of a big softie and am extremely affectionate with a girl as well.
So far in my 32 years I've had nothing but miserable failure in relationships with women. Needless to say there is a sense of loneliness. Still, I keep trying.
Now a shemale, from what I've been told they're a bit harder on a man in terms of relationships than women. I've been told it's mostly about money to them. So seeking one to fill that loneliness void seems to be a waste of time I'd imagine.
Sexually speaking, I am interested in them. Hard to explain why. Does it make a man gay or bi? All those issues related to it. Me? I don't care. If it made me gay to have a wonderful moment with the likes of Bianca fine! I'm gay and happy to be so. Personally, I see them as women, with a little something extra. Doesn't mean a thing in terms of orientation in my opinion.
I don't live in an area where a man could hope to meet a tgirl. In all likelihood my best bet would be to go somewhere else and find one who is a prostitute. But I'd rather not have a prostitute.
I've been advised by a veteran of this kind of thing that if one is looking for love with a tgirl you're better off not looking. Said the best thing to do in that regard is find a nice crossdresser or such. So, I guess love and relationship is out of the question. Sex, on the otherhand, is always possible though.

[eliogabalo]

Perhaps you're a bit depressed and confused about your sexual identity ( i was too ...). I assure you that some shemales are looking for love and can be very sweet and affectionate. Shemales often don't find an ordinary job; so they become prostitutes. This NOT means they are more greedy than women ! (How many women marry for money ?).
You have to understand what do you want. Good luck !

[Ogryn1313]

Nope. Not depressed. Used to be. I've been single over a year now. Had a bad two year engagement. Even had the wedding rings bought and paid for. Bitch cheated on me with a shinyhead and ran off with him a month before the wedding. But I was cool with it. In hindsight I see she made me miserable. Marriage to her would have been a death sentence. Confused? No, not really. I've come to accept that by society's definition I am bi. But I don't really put stock in lables.

[tlover]

Originally Posted by Ogryn1313

Nope. Not depressed. Used to be. I've been single over a year now. Had a bad two year engagement. Even had the wedding rings bought and paid for. Bitch cheated on me with a shinyhead and ran off with him a month before the wedding. But I was cool with it. In hindsight I see she made me miserable. Marriage to her would have been a death sentence. Confused? No, not really. I've come to accept that by society's definition I am bi. But I don't really put stock in lables.

Been trough some very rough times with some girl's myself.
Hope you find the one for you mate, thay say their someone out their for everyone.

[Ogryn1313]

Thanks for the kind thoughts!

i voted both.. but i fear that im lieing to myself.. after reading posts i am liking shemales so much more, and want my love to perhaps be a shemale instead of a female... despite this, i also love females.. their perfect asses can not be replaced, their beutiful voices, and their squishy wet pussies.

Originally Posted by Ogryn1313

I'll be honest, I've never been with a shemale, tgirl, or whatever the term is. But for many years I have had a mild interest in them which has now grown into a full blown desire.
Now, I love women. Sadly they don't return the feeling. There's alot to love about them. Sexually, I love the pussy. I love to go down on a girl. I'm kind of a big softie and am extremely affectionate with a girl as well.
So far in my 32 years I've had nothing but miserable failure in relationships with women. Needless to say there is a sense of loneliness. Still, I keep trying.
Now a shemale, from what I've been told they're a bit harder on a man in terms of relationships than women. I've been told it's mostly about money to them. So seeking one to fill that loneliness void seems to be a waste of time I'd imagine.
Sexually speaking, I am interested in them. Hard to explain why. Does it make a man gay or bi? All those issues related to it. Me? I don't care. If it made me gay to have a wonderful moment with the likes of Bianca fine! I'm gay and happy to be so. Personally, I see them as women, with a little something extra. Doesn't mean a thing in terms of orientation in my opinion.
I don't live in an area where a man could hope to meet a tgirl. In all likelihood my best bet would be to go somewhere else and find one who is a prostitute. But I'd rather not have a prostitute.
I've been advised by a veteran of this kind of thing that if one is looking for love with a tgirl you're better off not looking. Said the best thing to do in that regard is find a nice crossdresser or such. So, I guess love and relationship is out of the question. Sex, on the otherhand, is always possible though.

i didn't read this before posting... it really discouraged my thoughts of finding live with a shemale.. i was really really considering looking for love with one instead of a female but the thought of them wanting to be money leeches really discouraged me... i understand that because i've met alot online (unfortunately never in person) and well all they want is money.. i guess that's why they're online in the first place right? makes me feel stupid but whatever.

hey balo maybe you think the way you do about shemales because you have a great one, but they're not all like yours.

[eliogabalo]

I know not all shemales are sweet as mine. I've sought her for years, and i had many disappointment. But you can fulfil a dream only if you believe in it. If you feel a ladyboy is the best thing for you, you MUST look for a ladyboy.
Believe always in your dreams: they know what do you want and what do you need.

[jimudon]

Like the description says: what use is a girl without a cock! TO an island they should go!

[eliogabalo]

You're great ! TRANS POWER ! Ladyboys are much better than women !

[kelly]

im amazed at the huge increase in interest in ladyboys............it seem over the last couple of years the number of shemale websites has gone up 10times . Also my last visit to bangkok....there were a lot more ladyboys there than before.

I hope the trend continues....im loving it

kelly

[tlover]

Originally Posted by kelly

im amazed at the huge increase in interest in ladyboys............it seem over the last couple of years the number of shemale websites has gone up 10times . Also my last visit to bangkok....there were a lot more ladyboys there than before.

I hope the trend continues....im loving it

kelly

Yes ive seen this too, it seems to be the latest craze, the new sex.
I get a DVD catalogue regularly, every taste catered for and over the last couple of years the shemale offerings have trebled so that shows more people are interested and buying.

Guy's just wont admit to it though, i think it will eventually become more mainstream, more out in the open.