Why t-girls don't like to fuck guys?

[orion]

Hi Jared ..

I have to disagree with you on several points, let me explain why ..

Firstly, the majority (though by no means all) T-Girls are fundamentally Women & therefore Female in their outlook and expectations .. they want to be "courted" like any other woman .. Certainly the Girls I've dated or have had relationships with fit this criteria .. they want to be "loved", taking the female role in lovemaking ..

Secondly, the Penis only actually stops functioning as such (other than due to natural causes) if it's owner takes the Female hormone, Oestrogen .. which counteracts the Male hormone, Testosterone .. and therefore inhibits & eventually stops the production of Semen ..

Thirdly, a large percentage of Transgendered women do not see their Penis as a "blessing" at all .. hence the number who elect to have SRS (Sexual Re-assignment Surgery) ... Many consider it a "curse" and wish to be rid of it as soon as is practicable ..

Not every T-Girl, without a functioning Penis wants to use a "strap-on" to Anally penetrate a man .. they may however do so to please their partner .. but I think we need to differentiate between "real life" & what we see being re-enacted in Porn movies ..

I'm all for "open-mindedness" within sexual relationships .. but it's incorrect (and somewhat unfair) to say that by permitting a man to fellate them .. T-Girls are "teasing" that man ... Many men (me included) .. have no desire to be Anally penetrated by anyone or anything and get our pleasure from making love to T-Girls as we would with any other woman ..

All that said, I'm not de-crying your (or anyone else's) desire to be Anally penetrated nor denying that you may well derive great pleasure from it .. but as the old saying goes .. "Each to their own" ..

I wish you luck in your quest & hope you find a nice T-Girl who can fulfil your dreams ..

Best regards & Bye for now ..

Orion ..

[tvmarie]

I don't like my cock to be sucked. Well not so much dislike it as have no interest. It does nothing for me. I never cum through oral. I don't really like my cock and wish it was gone. I preferred when the man never touched me there. It was surprising how many didn't. One guy had me perform anal sex on him. It did nothing for me. I just pretended to cum for his benefit.

I do like other people's cocks though.

[desirouspussy]

Originally Posted by orion

.. but as the old saying goes .. "Each to their own" ..

Quite right, but I think you misunderstand what jared is trying to say. He is addressing the fact that some girls are seemingly afraid to use their (functioning) penis in the belief that it would somehow make them less feminine. That in my view is definitely not so.

Having been mainly into women these last few years, I've met several who just loved to strap it on. One even confessed to me afterwards that for one hot moment she regretted not having a penis. It did not make these women in any way less feminine, so why should a transsexual girl not benefit where she's at an advantage.

Having said all that.......I personally prefer to be on the receiving end.

[jared]

dear t-ladies, another question that is bothering me: lets imagine that you have a passion night with your lover and during sex your bf asks you to top him. Would you agree or refuse?

[franalexes]

There isn't much any funnier than seeing males trying to explain transexuals, how they feel, what they like, how they function.

[orion]

Hi Marie ... you sum up one of the points I was trying to make .. thanks .. :D

And Hi Franalexes .. your point is well made & I wouldn't attempt to even begin to claim that I understand or could explain what goes on in any woman's mind .. which is why you're all so endlessly fascinating & captivating ... I can only speak from my own personal experience ..

Bye for now,

Orion ..

[Bionca]

I think Orion's post was pretty well informed. Most trans*women have a complicated relationship with their penis. Some can't wait to have it reformed into a vagina, some don't care either way, some like to use it sexually.

As far as using it orally, but not fucking with it. I'm in that camp. Even before the hormones the act of penetration simply freaked me out to the point I'd lose erection. Oral stimulation, for me, is easy enough to get through. I still don't like it, but I can manage. I can enjoy that it pleases my partner, but it really does nothing for me ... my penis is simply the least sexualized part of my body.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by Bionca

I think Orion's post was pretty well informed. Most trans*women have a complicated relationship with their penis. Some can't wait to have it reformed into a vagina, some don't care either way, some like to use it sexually.

As far as using it orally, but not fucking with it. I'm in that camp. Even before the hormones the act of penetration simply freaked me out to the point I'd lose erection. Oral stimulation, for me, is easy enough to get through. I still don't like it, but I can manage. I can enjoy that it pleases my partner, but it really does nothing for me ... my penis is simply the least sexualized part of my body.

Hi Bionca,
These posts are interesting and present a problem. Most of this forum presents transsexuals (shemales) as hot and super horny with raging huge cocks shooting cum all over the place. This doesn't jibe with the reality you are discussing, its like there are two different types of transgendered people. Or is shemale hypersexuality an illusion? Thanks for your personal honesty.

[alyssaluxor]

Originally Posted by franalexes

There isn't much any funnier than seeing males trying to explain transexuals, how they feel, what they like, how they function.

I second the motion

[Joost]

The t-girls I've met really liked to be top. I haven't met that many though (only 4), but 3 of them preferred to be top and the other didn't really mind much.. I think she slightly preferred being bottom over top.

I know 2 of those 4 are also happy to still have a penis. Perhaps girls who're happy with their penis are more likely to be top.