Grumblings

[jimmyblaze1]

Originally Posted by Bionca

The larger issue is, I need to be able to count on my guy to stick up for me if I'm being insulted, not sit back while I'm being insulted (and by non-action agreeing to the insults). .....and it just seems that respect would dictate that he at some point he would have told his brother to lay off.

Yes I think you should really tell him it wasn't OK for him to not punch his bro on the arm and say "STFU"...lol

Originally Posted by Bionca

I'm not so pressed about him discussing our sex life (and to be honest I only caught part of the discussion and it *was* positive). After all, he is part of it too.

I think it's only natural to do this...it's a male showing off thing, and man he's a lucky guy - you're so pretty! Maybe not in front of you though, or change the tone in front of you =/.

Originally Posted by Bionca

I also think he is insecure about his feelings. He had that fantasy, and I did a rather good job on his first time (if I say so myself). I'm also pretty easy to like. I think he's afraid because he likes me more than he expected and he's trying to get his mind around that. *sigh* maybe I'm just giving more benefit of the doubt than he's worth... grumbles

Yes, trying to get your head around ANYTHING can be a bitch...and I think it shows he likess you even more because of his actions...that sounds stupid, but if he's acting out it's coz he's really into you and is trying to sort it out in his head, otherwise he'd just give ya the cold shoulder, be more straight with you.
Take it easy, have a chat and ride this as long as it will go. He may not be the one, he may be...just do right by yourself. <3