Did you experiment

[Arthur]

Originally Posted by 9yneGuy

I've used a finger and a pencil, but I'm scared to go bigger. I wasn't even ready for those small things, so I imagine going bigger would hurt. I don't really train my ass. I've used my finger a few times and the pencil once. One of my fantasies is to be fucked by a shemale, but the actual practice doesn't seem completely realistic for me. I don't know, maybe I'll train my ass to fit bigger things.

Be careful with things like pencils as you can damage yourself. A soft, flexible dildo is the safest aproach. Start small and use tons of lubricant. Let yourself relax and take it slow.