Are you gay? My opinion....

[hankhavelock]

This debate comes up again and again and yet there is no definitive answer. Probably because we all enter this in different ways and certainly develope differently too.

Personally, I have via my approach to the transsexual arena developed a "taste" also for very feminine gays, so for me I believe there is a degree of bisexuality in it, but that is only me. I know guys who would deny any kind of attraction to anything masculine but still are in love with transsexual women.

On the other hand I also find that in transsexual women there often is an almost enormous femininity that cisgendered women rarely have, so maybe it really is both worlds. To me a transsexual woman with her hard penis standing tall and ready for action is TOTALLY feminine. A penis to me has now almost lost its value as a masculine attribute and become a symbol of femininity... i

I kid you not - and to some extent this was the case from the very first time I spent quality time with a transsexual woman. Her cock was so delisciously feminine.

So am I gay? What ever...

H