Is anal sex pleasurable?

[tslust]

If your partner opens you up good and lubes-up anal feels really great. There's still be some pain at first, but it feels soo good.

[jimmyblaze1]

enough lube...and getting the muscles used to it...this is key...

After that you're laughing...you cum reaaal quick though if you're getting head while getting a prostate massage/fuck...

[Amy]

It definitely feels good, but the pressure in certain places can hurt after a while.

[alice]

Yes very pleasurable, although the first few times it hurt like heck. Using lots of lub and learning how to relax so one can receive almost any size cock is the key. I've cum many times getting a good anal probe without touching my clitty cock. I still can't receive a thick cock, but any length is fine.

[underthere]

It's all pleasure for me. I suck the man and get his cock all wet; thats all the lube I need. I've taken large and small cocks since the beginning and have always loved it, the gentleness of your partner or partners does help some.

[trendy1975]

Hi all, I am new here and ran across this thread. Great discussion and much more honest than most of the anal sex discussions in other forums.

To be honest it does hurt some when being penetrated but then the feeling is wonderful. And even the pain is good when I know I am giving my lover a lot of pleasure. After the initial pain of entry it is all good especially if the prostate gets a workout.

Next point, lube and more lube and don't rush too much.

To answer the question, yes, for me anal sex with the right partner is very pleasurable.

[Kim_Peach]

I like it

[alice]

It just keeps getting better and better for sure. It's not only do I enjoy it, but knowing that who I am with is also getting so much pleasure. Never in my wildest dreams would I have thought how much pleasure there is. Being a lady has it's rewards.

[connie]

Yes, I find it very pleasurable, so much so that a lot of the time, I find myself lusting for some huge hard cock to fill me and pump away, so wonderful to feel that flesh tempo as that dick opens me up and makes me feel so fantastic.

[smooth]

to me anal sex is not complete without poppers....that word may cause some to wonder what im talking about

[merelypink]

done right with plenty of lube it is~~~~

[Melissa Pink]

I've been enjoying receptive anal sex regularly for about four years. I diddled my tush for years with various objects and toys but was always too inhibited to attempt anal with someone until I began my transition. The first time I gave my ass to a guy it didn't hurt but I didn't cum. I think I was too nervous. The second time I tried it with the same guy later than night I was totally relaxed and had the most incredible total body orgasm. My only regret was waiting so long to give it up! LOL! In my opinion if it hurts then you are doing something wrong! For me the key to pleasurable anal sex is preparation. I make sure I am totally clean and empty "down there" and always engage in plenty of foreplay with fingers and toys before penetration. I used plenty of water based lube like Astroglide and insist my partner(s) wear a condom. I usually like to ride my partner's cock at first unless my sphincter relaxes. That way I can control how much and how quickly they fuck my tight ass. Once I'm relaxed all bets are off and I like all kinds of inovative positions.

Wendy Williams markets a "Anal Trainer" set of three butt plugs that are excellent for anyone interested in exploring this aspect of their sexuality. If you are lucky enough to meet a partner(s) with a big cock don't be intimidated by it. With patience you can train your ass to receive a big cock and enjoy it!

Have fun!

[Baby]

Originally Posted by alice

Yes very pleasurable, although the first few times it hurt like heck. Using lots of lub and learning how to relax so one can receive almost any size cock is the key. I've cum many times getting a good anal probe without touching my clitty cock. I still can't receive a thick cock, but any length is fine.

Ya... sheer pleasure... lube, relaxing... the best part is when youl cum without touching yourself.. handsfree.. ... Ahh again i say reverse cowgirl my fav... .... guess its time to get some...

[Melissa Pink]

Originally Posted by Baby

Ya... sheer pleasure... lube, relaxing... the best part is when youl cum without touching yourself.. handsfree.. ... Ahh again i say reverse cowgirl my fav... .... guess its time to get some...

Hands free is when you know you have entered a special place in your sexuality! It's incredible for me each and every time! Let the straight people have their conventional fucking! I'm an anal whore!

I’m glad everybody seems to enjoy being on the receiving end of an anal relation! That’s personally to my liking. Some testimonies here shows how incredibly pleasurable it can be indeed. I myself have had repeated confirmations of such pleasure in being able to give it. I’m particularly fascinated by the capacity to obtain orgasms solely from anal penetration. I wish we could get more explanations from those of you who have such a potential. Please, feel free to detail what precisely triggers it, what technique, in which position, etc. (Melissa, give us more details, please! explain to us! You’re usually so articulated.)

Then again, I know many people just can’t do it. I know personally a few strictly gay men who would like to, but just can’t seem to find any pleasure in it. One of them is actually only interested in rubbing and sucking and wants nothing to do with anal.

You’re right though, most every one of you: it takes a lot of care, you need to start slowly and prepare adequately, use generously of a water based lube. You also need to be clean and absolutely have to find a way to relax appropriately. I have found that a good, very hot bath is excellent for that purpose, and long preliminaries including well given oral sex. You might also want to start preparing yourself on your own, with progressively bigger and bigger dildos, in order to accustom the anal sphincter to penetration. Even better to do this as a couple in the form of a game.

This being said, I’m still far from convinced it is something for everyone. There’s a matter of temperament first, of course, but there might just be some physical impediment for some people, an insufficiently supple anus, for instance. I think it’s important to point that out in order to reassure some of those reading these posts that have tried and just can’t seem to enjoy it. They should know there’s nothing wrong with that either.

In any case, the very act of physical investigation is wonderful and there’s no limit to what we can discover from our sexuality. It’s as much a part of who we are as the intellect is, for instance, or the taste. It deserves every bit as much exploration.

[guiltydreamer]

4 days ago I arranged to see an Asian LB at a motel for 1 hour session. On arrival I was asked if I would like us to be joined by another TS - her friend.

After explaining that i did not have extra money to pay for the threesome, I was told that it was okay, no problem.

Well, the 1 hr turned into half that, (makes sense now), but it was more than worth it. I was pounded by the friend (who had a quite fat and not too long (say 5 inches) of hard cock - from behind and then missionary, whilst I smoked the other and ate her ass, wanked her etc as she sat in front and then astride my chest and on my face.

Needless to say I had the most intense orgasm with one cock inside my ass and another in my mouth.......quite amazing and I want more, more more....

[bintz]

I have yet to actually cum from anal masturbation (hands free), though I've come incredibly close. I can never quite get there, though... frustrating. It feels amazing though; I love anal. The best is when it gets in past the tight ring and you can just slide all the way back on it. Mmm...

[newt72]

like everyone else says it is about enough lube and time i took my ex wifes anal cherry, and she loved anal sex cause i took my time and did it right, i love a cock in my ass as well she would fuck me with a strap-on and we did it the same way slow and right it was great, but the same time i have had guys just stick it in my as is too tight for that i need some loving back there before they shove in 8-9 inches

[Melissa Pink]

Originally Posted by newt72

like everyone else says it is about enough lube and time i took my ex wifes anal cherry, and she loved anal sex cause i took my time and did it right, i love a cock in my ass as well she would fuck me with a strap-on and we did it the same way slow and right it was great, but the same time i have had guys just stick it in my as is too tight for that i need some loving back there before they shove in 8-9 inches

If anyone just "sticks it in my ass" it will be the last time they ever buttfuck me. I normally insist on riding my parter first when we have anal. That way I can control how much of their cock enters me and how quickly. After five or ten minutes my sphincter relaxes and we can get more creative. You might consider investing in an "anal trainer" set of dildoes like these marketed by Wendy Williams. The will help stretch your ass to accomodate nearly any size cock. In my opinion, the key to pleasurable great anal sex is preparation.

[tslust]

Originally Posted by Melissa Pink

If anyone just "sticks it in my ass" it will be the last time they ever buttfuck me. I normally insist on riding my parter first when we have anal. That way I can control how much of their cock enters me and how quickly. After five or ten minutes my sphincter relaxes and we can get more creative. You might consider investing in an "anal trainer" set of dildoes like these marketed by Wendy Williams. The will help stretch your ass to accomodate nearly any size cock. In my opinion, the key to pleasurable great anal sex is preparation.

I totally agree, I hate it when a guy just shoves it in without opening me up first. They probably get the idea that they can just stick it in from watching too much porn.

[crosstown]

If this had been asked of me a year ago I would not have had a clue. Now I would say most decidedly yes. But interestingly - and I'd agree with some earlier posts - it's the pain that seems to make it. The initial penetration - the tension and release - the way the sphincter grabs the entering cock; the submission, the thrusting, the extraordinary sensations through the prostate and up through the cock. Even if I don't cum (which is rare) it's a blast.

[Smoothie]

Very pleasurable, but also very painful at first. After the proper training, of course it is desired.
Anal sex is the best, but isn't the pain part of the fun? It hurts sure, but that makes it interesting. The pain at first really adds to the fun.

[knewbi]

I wouldn't know the answer here. Since I am very tight and the 2 guys that tried were not really into preparing me for it they never got in. I'd think a little massaging and working it would help. I intend to find out some day... It just looks like so much fun!!!

[mmmfajitas]

As long as you prep right. Prostate = pleasure city. Nothing like it.

It's a slippery slope though. Once you start you may never want to go back.

[georgedemesa]

yes its pleasurable my girlfriend tongue fuck me i really love it .next time i will let a shemale fuck me

[OyeRed]

Sometimes it can be a bit painful but it is always enjoyable for me.

[ILoveTgirls]

I have been fucked in the ass many times. I wish I had been doing it when I was a teenager but first did it when I was in my 20s. Best experience ever. I get off more being a bottom than being a top. That's just me. But I will also please any tgirl that wishes it. But man! Receiving a nice cock in my ass is just heaven!

[sailove]

I will give my ass up to any girlie cock if thats what she wants, but I perfer to please her orally !

[dennisGTS]

Plenty of lube! Love anal pleasure! Just with I could have the real thing in me, of course, from a hot T-girl!

[randolph]

Do dildos feel as good as shecocks?
How about vibrators?
Just wondering, never done any of this anal stuff myself.
My cock keeps me fully occupied.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by randolph

Do dildos feel as good as shecocks?
How about vibrators?
Just wondering, never done any of this anal stuff myself.
My cock keeps me fully occupied.

Latex is unyielding. Flesh is softer and easier to fit and way more comfortable. Remember, the natural reaction for the anus is to clench down and push out. So... if you are using latex start small and get used to it and remember that the real thing will be way better and more comfortable.

[orion]

I wouldn't know .. having never been fucked by anyone .. and having no desire whatsoever to be so ...

But none of the Transgendered partners I've ever had has complained .. so I guess I must be doing something right ..

To me .. I'm the Guy & she's the Girl .. therefore, I do the "business" ...

Bye for now,

Orion ..

[randolph]

Most of the clips I have see of anal sex seem to show that the fucker is enjoying it and the fuckee has a pained look on her/him face. Maybe the pain is good somehow, I don't know. I guess I should try it sometime so I know what I am talking about.

[luvasianlb]

Anal sex feels great! I have been fucked numerous times and unless the cock is huge, it just takes a reasonable amount of lube and maybe a little patience, and sometimes the lube is not needed. Sometimes it takes a minute or so, but generally if an ass has been penetrated and enjoyed it, it will loosen up enough that a hard fuck feels great. Some of the best orgasms and most explosive ejaculations I have had have come from having a warm, hard cock rub my prostate. I also LOVE it when I am fucking someone else's ass and their cock stays hard and they cum while I fuck them. The sight of their cum shooting always gets me off. My experience has been that real cocks feel WAAAAAAAY better than dildos or vibrators, although those feel good too.

[Handsolo]

Love it!

My wife does me and I do her anally and we both really enjoy it.

Baz.

[shyguyf55]

yes,im still virgin,i play with my toys,you have got to use plenty of lube and it will not hurt,if you feel pain you are not doing something right,if your partner has used a lot of lube it should be verrrrry pleasurableeeeee.

[dirty30]

I tryed it twice ,and both time's it hurt like a mother fucker....... I'd rather suck a nice cock...

[alinacin]

I prefer

man + Tgirl
Tgirl + Tgirl

[pussy boy]

i hope lost my virginity by beautiful shemale like danile coxxx

[transjen]

Took me a few tries, The first time i was 19 and well lets just say he tried but it hurt some much i made him stop trying, Next two times were agianst my will so no pleasure there, After i really adjusted to being female and got the hang of things all i can say is HELL YEAH it feels so good only a little discomfert as the tip starts to enter Jennifer

[tslust]

Originally Posted by transjen

Took me a few tries, The first time i was 19 and well lets just say he tried but it hurt some much i made him stop trying, Next two times were agianst my will so no pleasure there, After i really adjusted to being female and got the hang of things all i can say is HELL YEAH it feels so good only a little discomfert as the tip starts to enter Jennifer

Ya, when the head of his cock is pushing against your ring there might be some pain, especially if he's big. But once his head passes through your ring the first time, it's pure joy after that.

[nixgehtueber69]

Originally Posted by tslust

If your partner opens you up good and lubes-up anal feels really great. There's still be some pain at first, but it feels soo good.

With the right partner and the right cock it?s pure pleasure and the best orgasm you can get. I love that feeling and can?t get enough.