Are you gay? My opinion....

[Wunderbar]

I think it doesnt matter one bit.
I simply dont care what I'm called.

[jigenbakuda]

Originally Posted by Wunderbar

I think it doesnt matter one bit.
I simply dont care what I'm called.

I personally do care what I'm called. I got introduced to shemales from the japanese genre futanari, then drifted my way into shemale porn, whih is not really that bad. I Am not attracted to men, but some shemales can turn me on...

I am not and have never thought of myself as gay...

[dennisGTS]

Originally Posted by jigenbakuda

...I am not and have never thought of myself as gay...

Same here.

With that said, the shemales that do turn me on are the ones that look like a woman. Therefore, I'm not attracted to men and have no desire to be with one.

[hankhavelock]

This debate comes up again and again and yet there is no definitive answer. Probably because we all enter this in different ways and certainly develope differently too.

Personally, I have via my approach to the transsexual arena developed a "taste" also for very feminine gays, so for me I believe there is a degree of bisexuality in it, but that is only me. I know guys who would deny any kind of attraction to anything masculine but still are in love with transsexual women.

On the other hand I also find that in transsexual women there often is an almost enormous femininity that cisgendered women rarely have, so maybe it really is both worlds. To me a transsexual woman with her hard penis standing tall and ready for action is TOTALLY feminine. A penis to me has now almost lost its value as a masculine attribute and become a symbol of femininity... i

I kid you not - and to some extent this was the case from the very first time I spent quality time with a transsexual woman. Her cock was so delisciously feminine.

So am I gay? What ever...

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[franalexes]

I think I can identfy with all of the above. One should ask themselves if they are attracted to a certain individual regardless of what sex that person is. Then make a determination. I go for a feminine appearance, so I have to include nice looking cross dressers. It really doesn't matter what label, I know what I like. I am no more attracted to all people of one sex than I am to all flavors in an ice cream shop.
In my opinion, is a straight guy who likes transexuals in a porn site, suddenly gay? NO.

[9yneGuy]

My definition of the term "gay" would be that a person would do everything that he'd do to the opposite sex with the same sex. So under that definition, I'm not gay at all. I love everything about women, and I also love cock. I'll even have sex with a guy. But I could never fall in love with a man or be attracted to a man. I just like both sets of sexual parts. I don't know what I'd be considered (since as far as I know being bi involves being attracted to both sexes, and I'm not), but that's how I am.

[dollface4524]

in case you didn't knw woman don't have cock you are either born with a pussy or a cock! so b4 they became shemales we were all men, yes i said we meaning i used to be a man too. i just felt more comfortable as a woman. no i dont have my cock anymore but i had a cock and tits b4 i got it hacked off. you can't have a cock unless u were born male 1st hate to burt u guys lil bubble but we all used to a man just like u until we grew our hair out and took a trip to go and see a plastic surgeon to become a female. Say wht u want i was just as much a man as u were until the sniped it off.

[orion]

I fully respect all the opinions expressed so far ..

But for me, the thought of having a Male lover just leaves me cold .. not appalled, not horrified .. just cold (as in disinterested) ..

Similarly, I've never had any desire to be fucked by anyone .. Transgendered, RG or Male ..

Equally, I've never had any desire to "Dress" myself ...

I'm quite happy with the fact that I enjoy the company of Transgendered women & am in love with one .. Seeing her "En drab" is no problem either, simply because whatever the outside "wrapper" says, she's still the person I love on the inside ..

As it happens, my Girlfriend has decided, for her own reasons to remain "Non-Op" .. which suits me just fine .. I love her, not just in the physical sense but in the spiritual sense too .. as a loving, caring, passionate person who makes me very happy to be with ..

Whether that makes me "Gay", "Bi" or "Straight" is irrelevant .. to me .. I'm just plain old Me ...

Bye for now,

Orion ..