Help Me ! I Need To Get Over It !

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Arthur

Well for one thing there are many people jerking off to porn. TG are no different.

You are afraid you will be Gay. Dude, you either are or, you are not, it's not a switch.

As for feeling guilty, can't help you with that. I know people who feel guilty because they forgot to empty the trash can, or send a greeting card.

So, what was it you wanted help with ? Do you want to stop thinking about TG women ? Do you want to stop looking at them ?

Is it easy to go out and book an appointment with a nice TG escort ? Obviously not for you, I reckon you will just be in the same place for years and years and years, and even more years than that, wondering and wanking guiltily over websites and thinking you might be Gay.

Sometimes the door of the cage gets left open. Outside the other birds dive and wheel in the sun and the bird in the cage wonders what it would be like to be out with other birds swooping through the air. The bird in the cage thinks about it for a long time, so long infact that when he decides to venture out he finds someone has gone and fastened the cage shut.

Bingo! That's the issue in a nut-shell. Well put

[etnies]

thanks for advices lands of dogs. but i will try to take a break for porn. by the way what made you think that i'm a bisexual. i just want to know. cause i hope i'm not.

[Land_of_dogs]

I meant that if you ever liked guys (not saying you do, I'm just saying), that it meant you were always bisexual. I honestly believe you can't change your sexual orientation easily or completely. I'm not saying your bisexual, just saying that if you are, you are. You get what I'm saying. You don't just start liking guys out of nowhere.

[dollface4524]

Sexual Orientation is something that is determined at the age or 13. A man or woman decides what they are attracted to then and it sticks with them. Contrary to popular belief that you are just born a certain way people learn what is attractive. Sexual prefance Changes again in people around the age of 20-25. People generally find out what they truly like at this age because they stop factoring in what the maority of society says they should like. T-girls are not technically women or men. They are a unique combination of both. I know I know all t-girls say they are women legally they can't be called women until they get their cock chopped off, and for all you sluts who dont' want to admit it you know it's true so shut it! Anyways Sexuality is not something that is clear cut and you can't draw a line in the sand and be on 1 side or the other. If you want to be truly technical a t-girl is male. and you can only fuck us by sticking your cock in our ass. and all of us started out the same way you did. we just decided that we were more comfortable being more female. bottom line, most homesexuals don't really decide to be more fem. They crossdress and they are fine. Despite what some of these people have said on here a t-girl always starts off as a man. Women who get sex changes never have cocks as nice as t-girls because they had a pussy first. Some psychologists say that men are attrached to us t-girls because they can go out and have all outward appearances of being straight. It is a way to enact their deviant desires without being an outcast. They can pretend to be straight and even lie to themselve and say that they are. psychology they have fooled them selves into believing they are with a woman even though they go home and suck a cock and fuck an anus. in their own deluded minds they truly believe that they slept with a woman. The human mind chooses to believe what it wants to. You can say that you are straigh and fuck a t-girl or you can be straight and let a girl fuck you with a strap-on both are homosexual acts that can be hidden by saying you are staight. Lying and calling it something else will never change the truth of the act. If a doctor examined a gay guys ass hole. A straight guys ass hole who is getting fucked by his girls friends strap-on and a another guy who gets his ass pounded by a t-girl. Guess what all 3 mens asshole are going to look exactly the same, because they are doing the exact samething. They just are doing it in a different manner, but all 3 men are accomplishing the exact same goal. You have to make up your own damn mind what you want to do and what you like. You can lie to yourself to cushion the act and make it better. The truth is the truth. And there is nothing you can do to change that.

[Mika]

It's kinda sad and stressful to have to constantly worry about being "gay" (or not). I mean, for one, one does not have to go around waving a flag or wearing a t-shirt declaring oneself to be gay. Moreover, it's an honest attraction to a particular kind of person and if both parties are willing it's probably not going to be harmful. Sure, people have the right to their own sexual preferences, but it's frightening (not referring to anyone here. It just jogged me some) when people press the status quo so hard that everything out of their idea of the norm becomes something that must be destroyed.

Anyway yeah, don't worry about whether you're gay or not. It's really more about exploring your sexuality and being true to yourself. Who knows, this may be a passing phase, or you may be on the road to discovering what truly turns you on

[etnies]

Originally Posted by Mika

It's kinda sad and stressful to have to constantly worry about being "gay" (or not). I mean, for one, one does not have to go around waving a flag or wearing a t-shirt declaring oneself to be gay. Moreover, it's an honest attraction to a particular kind of person and if both parties are willing it's probably not going to be harmful. Sure, people have the right to their own sexual preferences, but it's frightening (not referring to anyone here. It just jogged me some) when people press the status quo so hard that everything out of their idea of the norm becomes something that must be destroyed.

Anyway yeah, don't worry about whether you're gay or not. It's really more about exploring your sexuality and being true to yourself. Who knows, this may be a passing phase, or you may be on the road to discovering what truly turns you on

thanks for the answer mika. i also think that this is a road to discover. i hope i can pass that road succesfully and find the true destination. lol

[franalexes]

Nobody wants you to get "over" this. Just accept and enjoy. It is part of you. If you weren't gay before, then you aren't gay now. Consider it like you just discovered a new gurlfriend.