How "SECRET" is your love of shemales.

[padeligne]

everyone that knows me, also knows that i fall for shemales. i am not ashamed of it, on the contrary.

[tgirl virgin]

Only those in other shemale forums.

[cucumber]

Very secret... For now :D

[Second Day]

Very secret.
The thing is I got a gf who I love a lot and I think she would freak out if she knew...

[Imconfused]

I have a question. I recently found out that my boyfriend loves to "wank" off to shemales.
What is it about a shemale that turns you on?

Also one night (awhile ago) we were have sex and I wanted to see how he would react, I rubbed my hand down his ace crack and then started to insert a finger, he didn't stop me. Infact when we were done he said you prob think I am weird for letting you do that to me... I didn't know how to respond. Anyways he took my hand and put it down there for me to insert my finger again. So I did.
I don't have a problem doing that, but my question is....if he likes woman with c@cks does that mean he wants to be with a real shemale, rather then just watching them?
Also for about the last two weeks, he has been "wanking" off to the shemales and has completely ignored me in the sex deptartment. Is there a problem here? Maybe he is thinking he would rather be with a shemale?
someone please humor me

[Excaliborg]

a most likely answer is that he is fascinated by this new fantasy that he is experiencing. it can be a bit overwhelming at times. please try to understand a man's sexuality is every bit as complicated as a woman's.

there is a problem if he continues to ig nore you and refuses to talk about it.

[tlover]

I wouldn't worry too much most of the guys here love females and are not gay.
What turns us on about shemales?
That's quite complex, i think for me its the beautiful femiminity of the female with the fascination of the hard erection and slight masculine side.
I think most men have a bit of a fascination with there cocks and other men's cocks but don't get turned on by the male sex.
So the female form coupled with the cock is irresistible.

I think most men get turned on by the idea or the fantasy but wont admit it.
As for him rather being with a shemale, i think you will have to expect this is just another side of his sexuality, he may want to have sex with a shemale or just fantasize about it, it doesn't mean hes going to leave you for a shemale.
Many men here have wives or girlfriends and just visit shemales now and then, his might just be a fantasy.

How did you find out and how long has his interest been? i think you need to talk to him about it.

I agree with Ex that at first when you discover a new sexual interest or fantasy it can totally consume for a while but this eventually passes and things will probably return to normal eventually, so i wouldn't worry too much just yet, let him indulge for a while until it eases.

What about your fantasies mabey you should talk to him about yours, mabey you could work each others fantasises into the relationship.
Why should he have all the fun.