Just how interested in shemales r u

[Talvenada]

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

We have tried it before many of times, it is obvious that before me he hadn't (at least I don't think so) because it's really tight and he wont let me go in all the way. He says it hurts. He has gone back there plenty of times it seems that's all he wants to do and though I have had pretty good orgasms it's not my fav.
What am I looking for, well for one thing for him to be honest with me. I told him there is nothing he could say to make me leave. Well unless he wanted to be with a shemale and not me, then I would leave. So why not tell me.

REDDY:

Why not tell you? He's afraid to lose you. If you said I want marriage, he would say goodbye if it was a problem. If he didn't care what you think or if you'd leave, why hide it? A person can be bi by being open to bi, willing to do bi, turned on to both in many combinations; but decides to pick one over both. Why not tell you? 2 cocks = gay in your own words, and in the words of most. He doesn't want to be gay, or thought of as gay. He's embarrassed, doesn't want you to see him as less than a man, or as a freaky man.

Nothing wrong w/ being whoever you are w/ whoever you want, but it's easier to say than practice. It sounds like fantasy that led to dildo play within a straight relationship, and viewing something different from plain vanilla.

You caught him looking at t-girls, a different kind of porn; and most guys like porn w/some open about it, some not. He could maintain the interest he has now for years w/o any problem for you, because he has already gone as far as he dares.

In reality, his reluctance to talk about it, to hide it is more positive than negative.


Piece,


TAL

[redsoxgirl]

Originally Posted by Talvenada

REDDY:

Why not tell you? He's afraid to lose you. If you said I want marriage, he would say goodbye if it was a problem. If he didn't care what you think or if you'd leave, why hide it? A person can be bi by being open to bi, willing to do bi, turned on to both in many combinations; but decides to pick one over both. Why not tell you? 2 cocks = gay in your own words, and in the words of most. He doesn't want to be gay, or thought of as gay. He's embarrassed, doesn't want you to see him as less than a man, or as a freaky man.

Nothing wrong w/ being whoever you are w/ whoever you want, but it's easier to say than practice. It sounds like fantasy that led to dildo play within a straight relationship, and viewing something different from plain vanilla.

You caught him looking at t-girls, a different kind of porn; and most guys like porn w/some open about it, some not. He could maintain the interest he has now for years w/o any problem for you, because he has already gone as far as he dares.

In reality, his reluctance to talk about it, to hide it is more positive than negative.


Piece,


TAL

Even if he told me I wouldn't leave. I love him and accept everything about him. No i don't think he is gay I was saying that he wouldn't go out in the "open" with this cause people think 2 cocks = gay.
I have had a pretty interesting dating life. I dated this guy and after awhile I figured out he wore womans clothes and wanted to be a woman, If I was the type to judge I would have left screaming. I didn't. So one night I came to pick him up for a date and he was completely dressed as a woman. We went out to dinner, then a movie then we walked the beach. In the end he decided not to take our relationship further because he wanted to be with men. Oh and by the way, I was jealous, he was prettier then me. You couldn't tell.
A few other people i have dated has also liked womans clothing and such. Its always about whats on the inside, cause looks don't last forever.
The only reason I would leave if he were to do anything behind my back.
As far as me being intimate with a shemale, well never thought about it. I have kissed a woman before and licked her boobs but I never went that far, it didn't really turn me on, but I have to say cock does turn me on.
So would I do it. I don't know.

[Talvenada]

Originally Posted by redsoxgirl

Even if he told me I wouldn't leave. I love him and accept everything about him. No i don't think he is gay I was saying that he wouldn't go out in the "open" with this cause people think 2 cocks = gay.

RED:

Remember, some people say if you tell me so and so, I wouldn't do this, that and the other. Then, they do just that. This area hinges on past relationship memories of how other people have reacted to him in any and all other situations. It's an extremely complex issue, and not some simple A-B-C thing. EXAMPLE: he could be holding back due to a relationship w/ a demanding parent from years ago.