first experience with a TS

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by smolderingtemptress

The ole tranny surprise. Not all men are welcoming of it. I know one time I got really sauced at the pub with a friend of mine and we took home a couple guys. Stupid me, I didn't tell him all throughout our hot and heavy makeout session, instead, making rather vague hints about what I am ("You don't really know me..." "We shouldn't be doing this" etc. etc. ). In a drunken stupor, I wasn't able to hold him off unzipping my pants and he took one look and said, "What the fuck?!" and bolted out of my friend's flat.

There's a couple lessons there. Don't drink to the brink of unconsciousness, and always tell the guy eventually. Oh, and be blunt. Not everyone's perceptive enough to pick up the hint.

This is one thing I never really understood - given the minimal chance that an average guy is "secretly" attracted to trans-women, I'd say that can be a hairy experience. So if I were a T-girl I'd not keep it a secret. But what do I know?

I remember an occasion where I visited a very typical male/female establishment in my town together with two T-girl friends of mine. They got flirtatious with some of the guys and I discretely hinted that they should be aware of the mindset of the clientele. They simply replied that they knew what they were doing :-)

I don't think they struck luck though. But they didn't get beaten up either.