Active, Passive or Switch?

I voted with what seems to be the majority here: switch. But allow me to qualify that answer by saying it would also depend on the lady's desires. I mean, as I understand it, there are many tgirls who only want to be passive, so obviously I'd repsect that and wouldn't be any less interested.

I have never been with a tgirl, so I suppose I have to separate my "carnal fantasies" from my "romantic fantasies." In the former, I dream of doing everything possible with a tgirl, and in the latter I just dream of finding my soulmate. I have never sought out an escort for personal reasons, though I am certainly not against such an encounter, and, to be honest, the older I get the more I consider it. It's perhaps a bit embarrasing though to admit that my romantic fantasies at this point in my life are much stronger than my carnal fantasies. I suppose I am just afraid of ending up alone. (Sorry much more information than needed there!)