How would your friends and family react if they found out

Thanks, tlover, I hope so, too. I see what you mean, but wouldn't exactly call myself 'lucky' at this point. At least you have a g/f. Maybe 'the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence'? Cheers!

I would say about 75% of my clients are married and doing it on the sly. And of those almost all are available for "daytime appointments only", lol.

I don't ask questions, it's not my business, and always make sure to wear little to no perfume.

[Cadian122]

My brother saw my computer download history (years ago) and I had to assure him that I was over it, 2 of my mates know & a few people @ work, when I have brought the topic up have been so Intolerent. So I keep it between Me, (when I get one) my ts girlfriend & you, but you don't know my real name.

[hankhavelock]

Since most already know, I can tell exactly how they reacted. In general, in a surprised yet sympathetic way and with a bit of curiousity. Some do consider it "gay", others do not. Some do not really understand it but have generally accepted it none the less. Some would feel uncomfortable if I shoved up with one of my gfs, others would love it (here I'm talking about friends and family in Denmark - I'm yet to bring one of my transsexual friends/lovers there). Since basicly all of my friends here in Indonesia are in the LGBT-"family", it's different here.

I do, how ever, play it a bit more discretely at my work-place here in Jakarta. Though, the majority of my collegues knows about my "specialty" and though I don't make much of a secret of it, I still have to be a bit prudent about not mixing my private life with my job in a way that could create trouble. So far the balance is working fine.

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[bob_notts]

Hi everyone, in answer to this thread, my wife has known of my tgirl interest for ages now and since her brother became her sister, now a pre op TS, i was introduced to the tgirl lifestyle.
My wife and I are very upfront and honest people discussed my intertest at length, she often works away from home and in these times i am allowed the freedom to entertain select tgirls as long as i tell her. She did say that if i cheated on her without her knowledge she would end this freedom immediately.
So i guess i am lucky because i was honest, and my friend from Lincoln who visits me loves it too lol

Bob.

[tlover]

Bob i think you and i are on different planets, you lucky guy.
Could never see my gf being that tolerant, that situation would be a dream scenario for me, having said that i think id also feel a little guilty like id be cheating on her.

As for work I suppose the type of reaction you get comes down to where in the world you live and your work environment.
Thinking back along time ago in some of the jobs ive been in, most people would probbly have had a laugh at my interest in tgirls and leave it at that but over the years i seem to have drifted into more and more macho type work environments, which is a bit strange as i'm not the macho type but right now in the industry i'm in my "peculier" interest in tgirls would be very much frowned upon and not well tolerated at all.
Be interesting to know where in the world you guys come from, the type of work you do and how your interests in tgirls is or would be tolerated.

[newcummer]

well for me its prety much like tlover said. some of the family wouldnt talk to me. i think my girl would come to understand cuz she know i love anal. my coworkes, well idk about them. theyd prolly make me the office jerster so id be looken for a new job n not tellin them anything lol.

[bob_notts]

Originally Posted by tlover

Bob i think you and i are on different planets, you lucky guy.
Could never see my gf being that tolerant, that situation would be a dream scenario for me, having said that i think id also feel a little guilty like id be cheating on her.

I think the biggest hurdle i had to get over was to be honest with my missus, this she respected and after lengthy discussions allowed me freedom, but she always asks who i have seen and was it good lol