A Little Help Please

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Hetergay.. not bad, but I think some guys would have trouble with the "gay" bit. It seems the ones who insist on gobbling the penis before even a proper introduction have the greatest trouble with teh gayz.

I have also heard TransBiSexual before... Men who are not into men, or have little attraction to men, but are fascinated by girls with a penis.

I really cannot find a better term myself (and it was not me who found it :-) ... well, let the homofobic "translovers" deal with their own problems about labels. But let's keep the label-competition open a bit...

TransBi is not bad, actually...

[sesame]

It appears as if this nomenclature competition has gotten into a Jam or impasse.

Tlover is Ok by me.

Heterogay is a misnomer, it doesnt make any sense at all.

I may come up with something later

But right now I wanna clear something about what Hank has to say:

Homosexuals are GAY

Heterosexuals are STRAIGHT

Bisexuals are BI

Transsexuals are TRANS

My friend, "gay, straight, bisexual" these three are categories for sexual orientation. But Transsexual is a real person, an individual, even a third gender, I dare say; [like male, female, trans] not a sexual orientation.
sexual orientation --> means, a choice or preference about your sex partner: whether you would like to have sex with a girl or someone of your own sex.
Transsexual is not about your choice for a partner, its about oneself.

[marlowe]

Originally Posted by sesame

Heterogay is a misnomer, it doesnt make any sense at all.

I agree, it doesn't make any sense etymologically.

[Show Me Love]

i gonna tell you why it makes lot of sense, since i'm the one who came up with it
HETERO means you attracted to female look, GAY means that technically you are gay and thats true. very simple


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[marlowe]

Ok Show_Me_Love, have it your way.

I'm glad to be heterogay.

[sesame]

Right marlowe,

Either one is hetero, meaning straight,
Or gay meaning a homosexual,
Or a Bisexual meaning both the above.

What does Heterogay mean?

[sesame]

Show me love:

since i'm the one who came up with it HETEROGAY

Now the whole circle of events make perfect sense!

Ironically speaking