TGIRL TOO GOOD - Worried sex with a Tgirl might be too good

No,i will still like girls and shemales

[jeffkraemer916]

I too am a transexual virgin and feel the same way.

[trans_lover]

Me too... but litte bit different because i got a girlfriend, and now i discovered that i like fantasies about tgirls....i'm starting to get doubt about me...anyway i think i'll never try, even if the temptation is really...really strong...

[cucumber]

Yep, feel the same.

Maybe I'll keep it to an Internet kink

[gizmo]

OK, I may be one of the very few here
that has been with ladyboy's and will never go back
to GG,s! It's just so much better with a TS.

I've had many relationship's with girl's
but have never been happier, than when
I'm with my " lady"! Remember, you never know
till you try! :D

[trans_lover]

i'd like to add few words...
I'm not only scared that it should be better...but i'm afraid it should be bad too...
i mean: what about her hairs? does surgery/hormones get her hairs off (i mean from face) or what about her voice?
those kind of things i'm afraid to find out i don't like if she still have...

[kelly]

Once you go down the path of ladyboys.........sex with a normal girl is boring....Ive been with lots of ladyboys in Bangkok and manila..........I would never go back to a girl again......................as the song goes......"Take a walk on the wild side".....................you wont regret it.....

Live life to the full.............and for gods sake.........have fun!!!

[warblade]

well my problem is I have a girlfriend well we are going to get married and I like T-girls, a lot, my fiance dose not know it jet. sometimes I wish she was a ladyboy. I never had sex with a T-girl before but I feel so drawn to them.

[giancarlo]

Originally Posted by cucumber

Yep, feel the same.

Maybe I'll keep it to an Internet kink

I agree with you.

[natalie1980]

i fell in love with a shemale prostitute after seeing her on regular basis 6 years ago i always think of her when im having sex with GGs
to get me going, if you do try it beware of the chemistry and STDs remember no kissing or fingering.

[alwaysandnever33]

I'm a virgin as well and would maybe try with a tgirl if the right opportunity came along but I doubt I'd ever lose interest in GGs.

Why are you afraid that sex might be “too good”? What is wrong with that? Is it because you consider transwomen something other than women? I went back and read the OP from 2007 and I am amazed at this comment:

What if i like it so much that sex with a "normal" girl just aint exciting anymore, doesn't hold the thrill of something really naughty and different like sex with a tgirl.

What will happen to my relationships with girls, will it all end?

I haven’t had sex with many partners but I have had a LOT of sex with a few partners, such as my ex-wife (I was married for 15 years) and my current wife. When you sleep with the same person every night--if you really care about them about you find ways to make it exciting--even naughty. Also my interest in transwomen has never affected my attraction to ciswomen. Actually, why should it?

This thread is sort of like the “Am I Gay?” thread… It strikes me as kind of silly and demeaning to our trans friends. My advice for anybody would be to relax, find someone they really like, and have great sex!

[bigdog23]

let me tell it to you STRAIGHT basically it will be like how you started looking at tgirl porn, you do it often and alot, depending on the girl your probably be sprung dude.....very much so

[ila]

Originally Posted by bigdog23

let me tell it to you STRAIGHT basically it will be like how you started looking at tgirl porn, you do it often and alot, depending on the girl your probably be sprung dude.....very much so

You're giving advice to a member who hasn't been on the site in more than 2 years; information which is readily available by clicking on his username and checking his public information. So do you really think that the OP is ever going to read your advice?

[SluttyShemaleAnna]

I know he be long gone, but I gotta say, I find the original post offensive.

Might be too good? Might be???

You all knows us tgirls be be waaay too good for you boys to handle, ain't be no 'might' about it!

[Melissa Pink]

This is my "take" on this post. When I first began exploring my sexuality as Melissa I met a lot of "straight" curious guys that wanted to "date" me. In reality a date was more like a rendevous at a hotel room. I didn't really mind as it was all part of my exploration and I wasn't looking for a LTR. I think many guys are attracted to pre-op transgenders because we aren't quite what they are accostomed to with GG's. I think most t girls are passionate about pleasing their partners. At least I know that I am. As Tom Waits says in the song "Get a little somethin' that you can't get at home!" Regarding if it will be "too good" I think it must depend on who your partner is and how passionate they are about pleasing you!

[jmadaf]

If you enjoy sex with a shemale that much don't worry about it, just go with it you won't be dissapointed, It is hot I love shemale sex.

[Candyboy222]

Originally Posted by trans_lover

Me too... but litte bit different because i got a girlfriend, and now i discovered that i like fantasies about tgirls....i'm starting to get doubt about me...anyway i think i'll never try, even if the temptation is really...really strong...

I think you should try one of us first so you don't disappoint the girl later. Better safe than sorry. Just make sure you pick the type that really turns you on and feel what it is like. Bet you will enjoy your visit. Most men I date do.

[Reslemock]

Yeah! like many of us, we fantasies of been with a T-Girl, I know soon as I have the opportunity I will do it, but what really worries me is that sex with a T-girl probably it would be so good that possibly that I would not like have sex with a G-girl.

[aa2239]

Originally Posted by Reslemock

Yeah! like many of us, we fantasies of been with a T-Girl, I know soon as I have the opportunity I will do it, but what really worries me is that sex with a T-girl probably it would be so good that possibly that I would not like have sex with a G-girl.

Erm... excuse me for asking, but what's so bad about liking t-girls more than g-girls? It almost sounds like you're afraid of becoming gay? Like many people have already said, it's unlikely that having sex with a t-girl will completely turn you off sex with a g-girl. But in the event that it does, so what?! At least you're doing what you enjoy with who you want to, you're with the person/people you find most attractive.

Maybe I'm not seeing the issue from your point of view... in life, I try to do what's best for me, not what everyone else says or thinks I should do... but I know that not everyone is the same.

[mylife01]

i have been with a cd and a ts . Ive fucked the ts for years now , as much as i like her i know we cant really "DATE" . It sucks i know and im still in my early 20's so maybe 1 days it will change , but i see real women as what im going to have a real realationship . Like i said i feel guilty for it .... But i just like fucking ass ! so ts ass is better than gg ass but i still love gg asshole

[Mel Asher]

Originally Posted by aa2239

Erm... excuse me for asking, but what's so bad about liking t-girls more than g-girls? It almost sounds like you're afraid of becoming gay? Like many people have already said, it's unlikely that having sex with a t-girl will completely turn you off sex with a g-girl. But in the event that it does, so what?! At least you're doing what you enjoy with who you want to, you're with the person/people you find most attractive.

Maybe I'm not seeing the issue from your point of view... in life, I try to do what's best for me, not what everyone else says or thinks I should do... but I know that not everyone is the same.

There is little or no connection in terms of psychological development between being an un-selfdiscovered Gay and being attracted to tGirls. Men are intensely-visual creatures, most particularly in matters of sexual stimulus, and the popularity of porn sites bears this out massively.

While there is some logic in assuming that enjoying the sight of a penis or balls and lusting variously after the owner might indicate some degree of Gayness in the person lusting, the facts really do not bear this out. Just because a Gay seeing another naked Gay's equipment might turn him on, it does not mean that he would be turned on by seeing the same in a tGirl, in fact he would more likely be turned off by her femininity / femaleness.

So, yes, by all means enjoy the turn-on, as a testosterone-loaded male with visual appreciation it is your right, just as you might be turned on by the sight if two Lesbians ' at it '.

A different question is the one about ' real woman ' or not. This is purely a question of individual viewpoint. However it would be very hurtful, if not downright insulting to imply to a Transgender still in the process of strugging to come to terms with her need for recognition and respect that she was less than a worthwhile person sexually. Technically differences there might be, but emotionally there should be no distinction. If there is, then it is in the mind of the peson who makes such hurtful and disrespectful criticisms, and he or she should respectfully withhold the opinion.

Hank has already said do not worry about your sexual preferences changing to such a degree that you are unable to enjoy what you had before. Just be thankful that you still have a healthy appetite both for sex and for life !