Help !

[Smoothie]

Just relax. I cried the first few times I had sex. It's OK to cry.

I try to remind myself that my body is giving someone else pleasure, and that is worth any pain.

It's your body and your own choice, but you will get used to it no matter how big. I have been hurt plenty of times, but I don't regret any of them.

When my boyfriend wanted to fist me I just cried with my face in a pillow but let him have his fun. I try to think of it as accomplishments.

I'd never tell him this, but I secretly wish he'd do such extreme things more often so I could try to get used to it. I know that he had a lot of fun, and that in itself is a huge turn on.

[aguy]

Problem solved!

This might be interesting for other bottoms with similar size issues so here it goes:The pain from her large cock was because she was hitting the rectum wall.

Our rectums are S shaped but they're different from person to person so if a girl is very well hung or if your S "pattern" is a bit short then guess what...PAIN!

The key is to change positions until you find a way for her cock to slide all the way in without pain so there it is.

At first I was trying to take her lying flat on my belly and that's what caused her huge penis to hit the rectum wall.She took me missionary yesterday and after a while the pain was gone! I could feel it all the way in with no pain at all!

(Many thanks to a friend of hers who's a doctor and actually gave her this advice)

[ila]

Definitely good news for both you and her.

[aguy]

I posted the whole thing not just because it was a problem for me but also to help some others with the same issue.

Many members here ask about anal sex pain so I figured it would be a good idea to post the answer with all the "medical" details.