Not to spoil the illusion: But do any other t-girls relate?

[GRH]

Sesame, as I PMed you last night, I just wanted to clear up here for all else to see. An emphatic no, regarding whether or not I consider a penis or man to be dirty...In fact both can be quite a turn on.

I probably came across a little too harsh sounding, as I don't know if I could say that I HATE my penis. But my gender dysphoria definitely manifests itself in the form of a psychological disconnect down there. The times I've tried to fuck I generally end up in a bad place psychologically. But is that pscyhological disconnect enough to justify the cost of removal? That's something a cheapskate like me is highly skeptical of.

And yes Bionca, it's a shame that full blown SRS is the general criterion whereby which gender switching is generally recognized by the state.

[soarbyrd]

This is my first post on this site. I have been checking this site out for a few weeks, and am impressed by how well people communicate. People can disagree without getting bent about it. This is a rare site, with so many diverse people communicating in such a civilized way.

Thanks to GRH for sharing this. I have always had the same impulse -- to be penetrated rather than being the penetrator -- and reading other peoples' experiences gives me insight into my own nature.

For many years I was pretty much a standard male, but always had this other side to my sexuality. Only in recent years have I acted on it. I'm still learning and growing. I have learned that there can be great tenderness in being penetrated, as well as it being a tremendous turn-on. These days I find myself more interested in the emotional component than the physical aspect, though physicality remains important.

The t-girl world is skewed by all the emphasis on porn and prostitution -- which is great, but sometimes it seems the emotional aspect can get lost. One nice thing about this site is that there are people who post about the more subtle aspects of all this. For every t-girl, there are many, many men who share the same impulse, at least some of the time. If my life had taken a different track, I could have done that, and I think there are many men who could agree.

Thanks to everybody for communicating so openly.