Is anal sex pleasurable?

[hankhavelock]

As most things good it takes a little practice and getting used to ;-) Then you start out slow - VERY slow and with lots of lubricant. The good news is, that your transsexual sex-partner knows this as well as every one, so she'll anticipate the fact that you don't just lie down, spread your legs and are open for a massive 8"... :-)

Some people have a more flexible rectum than others. You'll find out.

Another thing is that you may feel and enormous "need" to go take a shit... well, DO that before you get fucked, and then clean your rectum with water. The best thing is if you can make an enema (do it carefully) to make sure that you're completely empty. This will put you more at ease.

This is not something you should put pressure on - basicly, your ass has to get used to it. So take all the needed time and enjoy the ride :-)

Peace!

[sesame]

And here comes Hank, the man of the hour!
God said, "Let there be Hank",
And Lo! there was Hank! :D
Thank you for the valuable info, man.

[Htowner]

Pain and pleasure for me. Need lots of lubrication, but the thought of a beautiful shemale having sex with me helps to ease the pain.

[toysoldier]

I have never had sex with a ladyboy. but I have dreamed of it. But I did a person use a dildo on me, it felt soooooo good. I mean I was in bliss. then when it stopped, they took my dick in their mouth it was like instant eruption. LOL

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

As most things good it takes a little practice and getting used to ;-) Then you start out slow - VERY slow and with lots of lubricant. The good news is, that your transsexual sex-partner knows this as well as every one, so she'll anticipate the fact that you don't just lie down, spread your legs and are open for a massive 8"... :-)

Some people have a more flexible rectum than others. You'll find out.

Another thing is that you may feel and enormous "need" to go take a shit... well, DO that before you get fucked, and then clean your rectum with water. The best thing is if you can make an enema (do it carefully) to make sure that you're completely empty. This will put you more at ease.

This is not something you should put pressure on - basicly, your ass has to get used to it. So take all the needed time and enjoy the ride :-)

Peace!

Yay Hank!!

I can't stress your last point about taking time to get used to it enough. The natural reaction is to clench up and push out. It is very important to remember this for the first time tops and bottoms. Do the initial penetration in slow easy stages. Tip first and wait, then ease in slowly and wait ...

It should also be noted that a little preparation goes a long long way. Fingers, tongue and toys are very useful and should be used liberally. Lube is also a must as well as condoms - seriously, it's not hot or sexy but lots of you guys are seeing escorts so play smart and safe.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Yay Hank!!

I can't stress your last point about taking time to get used to it enough. The natural reaction is to clench up and push out. It is very important to remember this for the first time tops and bottoms. Do the initial penetration in slow easy stages. Tip first and wait, then ease in slowly and wait ...

It should also be noted that a little preparation goes a long long way. Fingers, tongue and toys are very useful and should be used liberally. Lube is also a must as well as condoms - seriously, it's not hot or sexy but lots of you guys are seeing escorts so play smart and safe.

Thanks Bionca :-) I used to say that I may be open-minded but in a tight-assed way... ;-)

Seriously, as you I just have a tight rectum, and it takes LOTS of time to get used to being anally fucked. In the beginning it was no fun at all, and I kept wondering why I really wanted to do this. But I persisted and with a little help from my good transsexual friends I've finally got to a point where the physical pleasure (not just the emotional pleasure) is now part of it.

And whether we're transsexual women or guys we share the same pain :-) And pleasure, for that matter.

I'll never forget the first time my sweet Mel wanted to fuck me... Mel has a sizable cock and I remembering thinking "OMG this is never gonna work HELP HELP HELP!" But it DID work! Because Mel took it easy! And shared a few good hints ;-)

Using condoms is obviously a must - but make sure to add extra amounts of lube as a condom enlarges friction and minimizes the natural flexibility of the cock in your ass.

So do lube up, guys and girls!

Peace!

H

[sesame]

In the beginning it was no fun at all, and I kept wondering why I really wanted to do this...
... I'll never forget the first time my sweet Mel wanted to fuck me... Mel has a sizable cock and I remembering thinking "OMG this is never gonna work HELP HELP HELP!" But it DID work! Because Mel took it easy!

Hank, you are an honest man.
Thank you for sharing your feelings with us.

Anal sex

I want to tell u about something i felt while anal sex in the last few weeks.
I don't really like anal sex (recieving) but if i m really horny i can't stand and sit on a cock . Last week, i made a group sex with a t-girl and a boy. First T-girl wanted to fuck me and i let her to fuck, everytime it hurts when first push so i dont like anal sex. After that the boy said i want to fuck too. But his dick was too big for me. But i let him to fuck me bec my ass was relaxed by the T-girl.

I sat on him and start up and down, after 2 or 3 min. i felt a pleasure and orgasm feelings. i feel like something blow in me . i felt really fucking pleasure that i have never feel. and my cock blowed without touching or masturbate, i didn't touch it . i feel the prostate orgasm or pleasure.
That was really good and interesting experience for me.
Is there anyone experience like that ???

[GRH]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

As most things good it takes a little practice and getting used to ;-) Then you start out slow - VERY slow and with lots of lubricant. The good news is, that your transsexual sex-partner knows this as well as every one, so she'll anticipate the fact that you don't just lie down, spread your legs and are open for a massive 8"... :-)

Some people have a more flexible rectum than others. You'll find out.

Another thing is that you may feel and enormous "need" to go take a shit... well, DO that before you get fucked, and then clean your rectum with water. The best thing is if you can make an enema (do it carefully) to make sure that you're completely empty. This will put you more at ease.

This is not something you should put pressure on - basicly, your ass has to get used to it. So take all the needed time and enjoy the ride :-)

Peace!

Quoted for truth. By nature, the anus seems to be an "out" hole, but with some preparation, going in can be VERY pleasurable. I will say that in my experience, going in the first time is sometimes painful, but if I have penetration followed by quick withdrawal, for whatever reason it seems that the second penetration is perfectly easy. I don't know why this is, but it seems like the sphincter relaxes after the first attempt and is quite willing to accept anything on a second try.

[hankhavelock]

Yep GRH, it's like that! Last nite a very horny friend of mine smsed me at 1am and announced she's be over... I was already sound asleep and quickly fell asleep again after her sms. None the less, she came over an hour later and started lubing me up (mind you I was half asleep). "Don't lube my buttocks but my hole and your dick, dear" I mumbled... she didn't say a word and a second later YANKED her sizable penis up my unprepared and poorly lubricated ass...

NOW, THAT HURT! And I got so f****** angry and was suddenly FULLY awake! And that was the end of any sexual encounter with me for THAT night. I didn't even wanna look at her...

POINT: Don't just walk into a guy's bedroom and stick your penis up his unprepared rectum :-)

Grrr!

:-)

[marlowe]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

Yep GRH, it's like that! Last nite a very horny friend of mine smsed me at 1am and announced she's be over... I was already sound asleep and quickly fell asleep again after her sms. None the less, she came over an hour later and started lubing me up (mind you I was half asleep). "Don't lube my buttocks but my hole and your dick, dear" I mumbled... she didn't say a word and a second later YANKED her sizable penis up my unprepared and poorly lubricated ass...

NOW, THAT HURT! And I got so f****** angry and was suddenly FULLY awake! And that was the end of any sexual encounter with me for THAT night. I didn't even wanna look at her...

POINT: Don't just walk into a guy's bedroom and stick your penis up his unprepared rectum :-)

Grrr!

:-)

Wow... that sucks.... very inconsiderate , I think you should have words with your friend! If this behaviour persists you could perhaps lock your door or, with the motto 'be prepared', you could always lube up every night before going to sleep just incase.

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by marlowe

Wow... that sucks.... very inconsiderate , I think you should have words with your friend! If this behaviour persists you could perhaps lock your door or, with the motto 'be prepared', you could always lube up every night before going to sleep just incase.

"Lock my door" and "lube up in advance"... you're joy-killer...

[marlowe]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

"Lock my door" and "lube up in advance"... you're joy-killer...

Ok... it's your arse. But don't say I didn't warn you!!! :D

[sesame]

Originally Posted by marlowe

Wow... that sucks.... very inconsiderate , I think you should have words with your friend! If this behaviour persists you could perhaps lock your door or, with the motto 'be prepared', you could always lube up every night before going to sleep just incase.

Excuse my laughing, Hank!!
Anyone can enter your bedroom and rape you?
You need to have some protection man!
Also, Your friend is really some piece of work!

[SHEMALE_SEEKER]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

Yep GRH, it's like that! Last nite a very horny friend of mine smsed me at 1am and announced she's be over... I was already sound asleep and quickly fell asleep again after her sms. None the less, she came over an hour later and started lubing me up (mind you I was half asleep). "Don't lube my buttocks but my hole and your dick, dear" I mumbled... she didn't say a word and a second later YANKED her sizable penis up my unprepared and poorly lubricated ass...

NOW, THAT HURT! And I got so f****** angry and was suddenly FULLY awake! And that was the end of any sexual encounter with me for THAT night. I didn't even wanna look at her...

POINT: Don't just walk into a guy's bedroom and stick your penis up his unprepared rectum :-)

Grrr! :-)

HAHAHAHA....Fucking hysterical....

Originally Posted by Bionca

Exactly... when I feel my legs tense up and my back arch I know it's only seconds until I'm quivering and holding my partner as close as I can to keep the pressure deep and on target.

Time For Yet Another Cold Shower....

Originally Posted by sesame

Excuse my laughing, Hank!!
Anyone can enter your bedroom and rape you?
You need to have some protection man!
Also, Your friend is really some piece of work!

This is fucking insane ,, stop it sesame,,,

[sesame]

My apologies to ... Damn!
Some people here are dying for a relationship with a Tranny!
And some lucky bulls just get it without asking!
And they are angry over it!
There is so much inequality of demand and supply in this unjust world!
I protest!

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by Bionca

Oh my.. how very unlady-like... I believe the etiquette for this would be to gently coax the partner awake with a little rimming and some digital (that's fingers) massaging of the sphincter so as not to startle a poor sleeping man. Once you get that tell-tale lifting of the bottom in the air and a winking sphincter in your face - THEN you have the green light for some kenetic anal action.

Now THAT would have been much more to my liking...

Originally Posted by sesame

Excuse my laughing, Hank!!
Anyone can enter your bedroom and rape you?
You need to have some protection man!
Also, Your friend is really some piece of work!

Well, I live in a secluded part of town ;-) And here we're all friends! All I asked for was a bit of generousity on the lube-side... but nooo, she was too horny for that!

It really DID hurt, and she knows totally well, that I'm tight-assed (yet open-minded :-) ) and that it takes a wee time to get my lill ass ready for her monster cock...

I don't just yank it in either... it has to be slow and erotic... now I'm getting horny here... Ms. B. where are you???

Remember that the initial name of this thread is whether or not anal sex is pleasurable. Last night it wasn't :-)

Ouch!

H

you're super hot

[raojai70]

The best rewards in life often come after a bit of pain. The same is often true of anal sex. Pain there sometimes is but this just enhances the pleasures that follow.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by hankhavelock

Yep GRH, it's like that! Last nite a very horny friend of mine smsed me at 1am and announced she's be over... I was already sound asleep and quickly fell asleep again after her sms. None the less, she came over an hour later and started lubing me up (mind you I was half asleep). "Don't lube my buttocks but my hole and your dick, dear" I mumbled... she didn't say a word and a second later YANKED her sizable penis up my unprepared and poorly lubricated ass...

NOW, THAT HURT! And I got so f****** angry and was suddenly FULLY awake! And that was the end of any sexual encounter with me for THAT night. I didn't even wanna look at her...

POINT: Don't just walk into a guy's bedroom and stick your penis up his unprepared rectum :-)

Grrr!

:-)

Oh my.. how very unlady-like... I believe the etiquette for this would be to gently coax the partner awake with a little rimming and some digital (that's fingers) massaging of the sphincter so as not to startle a poor sleeping man. Once you get that tell-tale lifting of the bottom in the air and a winking sphincter in your face - THEN you have the green light for some kenetic anal action.

Then again, perhaps I'm just a prude who hates to get skewered to wakefulness in the middle of the night.