Does it have to get hard?

[sesame]

It's a choice for me between boobs or an erection.. I'm choosing the boobs (and hips, and ass, and soft skin, and not masculinising my skull). Without adding any more stuff in my body - my god recovering from facial surgeries hurt like HELL. Not to mention my forehead ached constantly for 6 months after and my eyebrows didn't have full motion, so It was hard to convey emotion with my face.

I guess you drew a smile in a piece of paper to express your emotions? Or just verbally expressed them? "I am angry now, though I look unperturbed!" or "Grrrr!!"
Anyway, that sounds like penance to extricate something nature is reluctant to give. Its a lot of sacrifice and needs to be appreciated to the last iota.
But then, your partner may have personal preferences. As you can see, some guys are attracted to a hard wiener in a girl!

[Bionca]

haha

I mostly just told people what I was feeling. The idea of emotion flash cards sounds cute though.

Honestly I was pretty lucky. I only had to go back a couple times to get things evened out and touched up. That and my pain and lack of muscle control was temporary. That isn't always the case.

The hard weiner thing is one of those places where the reality of many transwomen and the fantasy of many men who like the idea of a transwoman don't always come together very well.

I'm all for gals doing what they need to do to feel right in their bodies and to also enjoy their sexuality. My decision was right for me, and should not be right for anyone else.