i like to ask your advice on this if you don't mind me asking this ahead of time

[luvasiants]

Hello,

1) Be clear with Yourself about Your sexuality and about what You are looking for.
2) Stop Your mind about any hypotetical step over: "IF" You will meet Her, "IF" You and Her will match, "IF" You and Her will fall in love, "IF" You and Her will decide to have a regular relationship, "IF" You and Her will have to meet family and any "IF" will come.
3) Date Her if You feel and want, respect Her, treat Her same as You would treat any Girl, get to know Her and let Her to know You, then follow the wave.
4) Considering that You want "save Your virginity" the point 4 and following are no needed.

Neither advices nor suggestions, just my opinion, with respect.

Regards.

[franalexes]

Dear friend, you're right. My girlfriend has some physical differences but she has something that you don't; a brain.

( you can judge the interlect of people by what they choose to talk about. )

[lordscott]

I'm sorry if my question is dumb I'm only asking ahead of time whenever and when and if I put myself out there dating again and when and if any of my friends and/or if any of my family find out my girlfriend have a penis or if they become nosy like some people are since some people are so nosy and they found out on their own and if I already know from the start that she have a penis and I don't care even though I'm a straight guy that's why I'm asking you fellow members opinions ahead of time should I tell them I already know/knew that about her or should I let her decide if she wants them to know/or if she wants to tell them.

If none of the above how should I respond to any of my friends and/or any of my family whenever we talk and they told me about her that she have a penis and I already know way before them and before they told me and like I said don't worry I'll defend my girlfriend and I defend people who I love and I defend people I care about .

[thegirlinblue]

Most trans girls are pretty use to fielding these sort of questions. I think its just important to be honest and open to talking about it.

I don't mean that she or you should be announcing it to the world, but if any questions do arise just answer them as openly as possible.

My partners family know all about me and it's never been a problem. We just answered any question they had and kept some privacy as well.

Whats in my pants never came up! But I know that some people might ask that question. That one is the only one that is really up to the individual, personally I think whats down there is my business and if I want to tell someone about it then I will, but I don't go asking others what they have in their pants so why should I tell em whats in mine.

I guess that is really up to your partner at the end of the day, everyone has difference with how much of their privacy they want to share.

[luvasiants]

Hello,

I am sorry if my opinions offended You or someone other.
About what You asked, thegirlinblue gave to You the best advice possible.

Regards.

[lordscott]

Originally Posted by luvasiants

Hello,

I am sorry if my opinions offended You or someone other.
About what You asked, thegirlinblue gave to You the best advice possible.

Regards.

No need to apologize don't worry I'm not offended and I'm sorry if my question is dumb I'm only asking ahead of time whenever and when and if I put myself out there dating again and when and if any of my friends and/or if any of my family find out my girlfriend have a penis or if they become nosy like some people are since some people are so nosy and they found out on their own and if I already know from the start that she have a penis and I don't care even though I'm a straight guy that's why I'm asking you fellow members opinions ahead of time should I tell them I already know/knew that about her or should I let her decide if she wants them to know/or if she wants to tell them.

If none of the above how should I respond to any of my friends and/or any of my family whenever we talk and they told me about her that she have a penis and I already know way before them and before they told me and like I said don't worry I'll defend my girlfriend and I defend people who I love and I defend people I care about .