Top 6 things not to say to a transsexual!

[franalexes]

GRH
I read your second post before I read the first. Thanks for agreeing with me.
Understated and over simplified; a relationship with sex but no respect, honor or commitment can be erotic but not rewarding. A relationship with respect, honor, commitment, closeness, caring and some body contact but without sex can be rewarding and even erotic.
I sometimes have been asked here,"which way to your bedroom Fran?"
Making a judgement about the person asking, I say, "through the church."
It always seems to "deflate" the question. (amoung other things.)

[franalexes]

For Larry

Make out your list of everything a girl wants. Certainly include that "emotional foundation" and put sex as number 1 if you wish.
Now for a gurl ( note spelling ) keep the same list but put sex far down the list, not necessaraly last.
Good boy! You get A+

[LarryP]

Fran & GRH, thank you both for your reply. You both make some very good points, which are greatly appreciated. Peace, lp

[haroldge]

Isn't it a paradox for some girls to dislike their penis and still the penis is a source of orgasm. I understand if they don't want to actively use it but still take pleasure in it in some way.

[smc]

Originally Posted by haroldge

Isn't it a paradox for some girls to dislike their penis and still the penis is a source of orgasm. I understand if they don't want to actively use it but still take pleasure in it in some way.

Try putting yourself in the place of a person born with the "wrong" gender, and then see if orgasms are the most important thing you seek in your life.

[StrangeFool]

Originally Posted by haroldge

Isn't it a paradox for some girls to dislike their penis and still the penis is a source of orgasm. I understand if they don't want to actively use it but still take pleasure in it in some way.

The paradox is, if anything, only going to make it worse.

Think about how some guys would feel about anal sex (receiving end)- they're not claiming that one can't get pleasure that way, they're claiming they don't want to experience that pleasure. Nope, not interested, do not want to do that for recreation. Not even if, just talking about the anatomy, it would be a physically pleasurable act.