Am I the norm?

[notkilos]

Originally Posted by ImNewtoThis

Hi all, I have been reading a lot of these forums and it seems like many of the she male lovers enjoy giving bjs and being penetrated, but I just can't get turned on by it. I am very attracted to a hot feminine shemale, but I just want to penetrate them and receive bjs. I basically treat a she male like a women. I want nothing to do with her cock besides seeing it. Is something wrong with me? I rather pleasure a she male in ways that have nothing to do with her cock.

I'm also a newbie and although I doubt i'll ever meet a nice shemale/ladyboy, all I want is to kiss and suck her breasts, for her to give me a bj, and maybe penetrate her. That sounds a bit selfish doesn't it? But I'm still new to this scene. Later, I might consider moving the boundaries

[hankhavelock]

Originally Posted by notkilos

I'm also a newbie and although I doubt i'll ever meet a nice shemale/ladyboy, all I want is to kiss and suck her breasts, for her to give me a bj, and maybe penetrate her. That sounds a bit selfish doesn't it? But I'm still new to this scene. Later, I might consider moving the boundaries

Very normal - she's woman, and obviously you view her in such a paradigm. I also began as strictly top and then gradually realized that a penis can also be very feminine. It takes time to expand your deeply rooted views on femininity/masculinity - so take your time but be open :-)

H