Am I the norm?

[kenstar]

Originally Posted by ImNewtoThis

Hi all, I have been reading a lot of these forums and it seems like many of the she male lovers enjoy giving bjs and being penetrated, but I just can't get turned on by it. I am very attracted to a hot feminine shemale, but I just want to penetrate them and receive bjs. I basically treat a she male like a women. I want nothing to do with her cock besides seeing it. Is something wrong with me? I rather pleasure a she male in ways that have nothing to do with her cock.

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to give oral or be penetrated. It just doesn't turn you on, nothing wrong with what is natural for you.

I will say however, that it is too bad you don't enjoy the thought of participating in those activities as they are both very giving and gratifying acts.

Even though you don't like doing those two sex acts it really shouldn't cause you a problem because some t-girls don't want you to preform oral sex as it makes them feel less feminine in some cases. If she is taking hormones than she may not be able to get an erection or ejaculate. A lot of t-girls also seem like they don't want to give anal as it's not a very feminine act either.

so you should be all set. I don't know if your "normal" but I know there is nothing wrong with how you feel either, the idea of a penis appeals to you more than the reality of a penis. You like to look and think about it but you don't want to interact with it.

Nothing wrong about that, it's just how your attracted, I think you should talk with your lover first before having sex, so you both are on the same page.