Happily Married

[tslust]

Originally Posted by smc

Monogamy has been shown scientifically to be an unnatural state for humans. Why don't you talk to your wife about this "intense infatuation"? If your marriage is as good as you say, and you approach the conversation in a loving way, it may turn out to be a very good thing. Sure, it can be difficult in the beginning, but you never know.

I've found that some couples are open in their marriage, and don't mind their partner playing with others as long as they're honest about it. Sometimes the wives like to play too.

[Smoothie]

I've never cheated on a gal in my entire life. Given that earnest position, I feel that every person should have fun.

Everyone should be worried about STDs, but if that isn't an issue why declare a person immoral for wanting to have sex? If You have a great family and everything is so great, why care? Can a baseball fan not enjoy a basketball game every now and then? I think respectable forms of adultry should be welcomed, given that both partners are aware that they are seeking human needs in dry times. Just let the fun happen if you feel it is safe for your partner and you.

Just because someone wants sex on impulse out of boredom doesn't mean that they don't love you ANYMORE.

If your wife loves you (and your children if such is the case), understand that she has fantasies just like you. While men masturbate by manipulating their genitals, women can't achieve the same pleasure with imagination alone since a lot of it is about penetration or girth.
If you feel the practice is medically safe, let your wife enjoy as much as you do yourself when you Jerk it.

[smc]

Originally Posted by Smoothie

... While men masturbate by manipulating their genitals, women can't achieve the same pleasure with imagination alone since a lot of it is about penetration or girth. ...

As long as I live, I will never cease to be amazed by the audacity of men who claim to know so much about women that they can make blanket statements such as the one above, state them with absolute authority, and use these arguments to buttress all manner of other positions that they take on this or that issue.

I submit, Smoothie, that your knowledge of how women as a group can achieve pleasure is inversely proportional to the knowledge any one woman has of how she, herself, achieves pleasure.

[aussiepride]

Originally Posted by Smoothie

I've never cheated on a gal in my entire life. Given that earnest position, I feel that every person should have fun.

Everyone should be worried about STDs, but if that isn't an issue why declare a person immoral for wanting to have sex? If You have a great family and everything is so great, why care? Can a baseball fan not enjoy a basketball game every now and then? I think respectable forms of adultry should be welcomed, given that both partners are aware that they are seeking human needs in dry times. Just let the fun happen if you feel it is safe for your partner and you.

Just because someone wants sex on impulse out of boredom doesn't mean that they don't love you ANYMORE.

If your wife loves you (and your children if such is the case), understand that she has fantasies just like you. While men masturbate by manipulating their genitals, women can't achieve the same pleasure with imagination alone since a lot of it is about penetration or girth.
If you feel the practice is medically safe, let your wife enjoy as much as you do yourself when you Jerk it.

Don't lump me in that boat, I simply rub it up an down until i cum.
Not much manipulating going on there.

And have u ever read a romance novel? It's all about imagination with woman.
Just becUase they don't stick things in there bits don't mean they are not fantasing or getting some level of pleasure from things.

And the simple question about cheating/ casually seeing other people. If you come home and your wife said she had sec with some stranger that day, but it was purely sexual, how would YOU feel?

[tslust]

Originally Posted by Smoothie

Everyone should be worried about STDs, but if that isn't an issue why declare a person immoral for wanting to have sex?

True, not everyone shares the same sense morallity. So if you disregard the health risks or even the inmorality of cheating, it still comes down to an issue of trust. From my point of view, if he breaks his vows "forsaking all others" to her, how could I ever trust him?

Originally Posted by smc

Monogamy has been shown scientifically to be an unnatural state for humans.

There might be some truth to this, given the almost primal need for males to inseminate anything that doesn't run fast enough (women, girls like me, other guys, even farm animals)

[rockabilly]

Monogamy is what seperates us from animals.





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