Whys it so hard to chat/meet TGirls?

[me4ladyboy]

it all depends on what you are looking for. if you are looking for a hook up sexually or, whether you are looking for a friend and possible relationship. There are ways to get around paying on the pay sites too as long as they are 'free' to join and post a profile.

But, if you join a site, even a free one, and you are only looking for cam sex or sex chat, be honest about it. Don't say you will meet up if you don't even plan to. I have dated and met up with ladyboys that I met on line first. Most have hard time getting over the trust issue because so many guys tell them that they will meet them and never do.

But, if you really want a nice girl and want to met her an maybe date, don't ask to see naked on cam or how big their dick is. Though there are a lot of exhibitionist ladyboys out there, there are more that are not and are seriously looking for a real boyfriend. For me, it's more enjoyable to not see naked until after meeting. Show a ladyboy respect on line and, you have a much better chance of a girlfriend.

Originally Posted by me4ladyboy

it all depends on what you are looking for. if you are looking for a hook up sexually or, whether you are looking for a friend and possible relationship. There are ways to get around paying on the pay sites too as long as they are 'free' to join and post a profile.

But, if you join a site, even a free one, and you are only looking for cam sex or sex chat, be honest about it. Don't say you will meet up if you don't even plan to. I have dated and met up with ladyboys that I met on line first. Most have hard time getting over the trust issue because so many guys tell them that they will meet them and never do.

But, if you really want a nice girl and want to met her an maybe date, don't ask to see naked on cam or how big their dick is. Though there are a lot of exhibitionist ladyboys out there, there are more that are not and are seriously looking for a real boyfriend. For me, it's more enjoyable to not see naked until after meeting. Show a ladyboy respect on line and, you have a much better chance of a girlfriend.

This all good advice. Though not all transsexual women appreciate the label of "ladyboy". >.<

[me4ladyboy]

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

This all good advice. Though not all transsexual women appreciate the label of "ladyboy". >.<

it's not meant to be derogatory. I live in Asia and that's how they refer to themselves here. I dated an American TS for a while and she had never heard the term 'ladyboy' before and thought it was 'cute' but was not offended. In Thailand, the word is Kathoey. But, some Thai TS don't like that term. You can't please everyone I guess, no matter what you say.

Originally Posted by me4ladyboy

it's not meant to be derogatory. I live in Asia and that's how they refer to themselves here. I dated an American TS for a while and she had never heard the term 'ladyboy' before and thought it was 'cute' but was not offended. In Thailand, the word is Kathoey. But, some Thai TS don't like that term. You can't please everyone I guess, no matter what you say.

Yes I'm well aware of Kathoey being literally translated into ladyboy. But doesn't mean I agree with it. And the Thai girls can be called what ever they want. Same goes for all girl.

[smc]

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

Yes I'm well aware of Kathoey being literally translated into ladyboy. But doesn't mean I agree with it. And the Thai girls can be called what ever they want. Same goes for all girl.

Yes, indeed!