does anyone else know you like trannys

Originally Posted by smc

As I was telling a friend on this site in a chat we were having recently, a colleague at my university surprised me with a question just the other day.

A bit of background. My university was one of the first in the United States to codify, in school rules and statutes, protections for LGBT students, faculty, and staff against discrimination and any sort of hateful behavior, and to establish very stern punishments for violators of those rules. When we did that, a very long time ago, I was the first faculty member to join with the staff member who initiated the campaign.

Last week, an issue came up at school involving a transgender student and a laboratory maintenance worker who called her a hateful name. I sit on the board that investigates these matters, and I went to a meeting to determine what to do. After the meeting, I had lunch with a colleague. He asked me what I had been doing that morning, and I told him.

He looked at me and said, "I've been meaning to ask you this for 10 years. Do you like trannies? Or did you start all that stuff purely out of your commitment to human rights?"

I laughed, and he turned a bit red.

I told him that I would have done it regardless of whether I had an attraction to transsexual women (I corrected him on his use of terms), but that, yes, I happen to have such an attraction.

"Oh," he said.

After lunch, as we were walking back to our offices, he turned to me again and said, "I think I know someone you might like to meet."

He was trying to set me up on a date.

Note to all you guys saying that you can't find any trans girls. See quote. SMC is doing it right.

[smc]

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

Note to all you guys saying that you can't find any trans girls. See quote. SMC is doing it right.

Thanks so much ... but just to be clear, nothing in what I wrote was about trying to find a trans girl.

Originally Posted by smc

Thanks so much ... but just to be clear, nothing in what I wrote was about trying to find a trans girl.

Yeah, sorry about that SMC. I didn't mean to imply that was your intention in the first place.

[smc]

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

Yeah, sorry about that SMC. I didn't mean to imply that was your intention in the first place.

I didn't think so. But it would be interesting to know what you meant by "doing it right."

Originally Posted by smc

I didn't think so. But it would be interesting to know what you meant by "doing it right."

By being a decent, honorable, and open person.

[Wendy Summers]

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

By being a decent, honorable, and open person.

Agreed - based on my experiences with smc, he's the kind of guy who deserves the girl of his dreams.

On topic, yes it's well documented I like other transwomen (and men and other women and... well you get the idea) -- there's even pictures and shit.

[TrannyLover2]

My (now ex-) girlfriend (broke up a couple of weeks ago) knew and she would get really horny thinking of me getting it on with a shemale (she knew I'm not attracted to men at all nor do I get off on gay porn). She even suggested many-a-time that we find one, but in the end she admitted she wouldn't share me with anyone. So there goes that chance!

Nobody else knows and I doubt they would understand, even if I explained it to them.

I'm still extremely attracted to g-girls, but would love to have experience or a relationship with a t-girl.

The only other person I'm thinking of confiding to is a great friend of mine with a really open mind (he's had a gay relationship in the past, but has been with g-girls before and after that), who, incidentally, lives in Sao Paolo! I should probably ask him is he's ever had an experience...hmmm... There's also a possibility that I will be moving to Brazil in the near future, so I'm pretty confident my desire will become reality soon.

[ila]

Originally Posted by ThirdEyeGirl

...And honestly I would only date men like the three of you. Because if I'm secure in myself to be open about who I am and who I'm attracted to. Than why shouldn't the person I'm with be too.
And I wish every one thought like you three. Cause you are the allies that the LGBTQA community needs. ...

Thankyou very much.

[aussiepride]

i live with a ts woman and my family knows and loves her.
i suppose i am lucky that she is a gorgeous looking woman, so people in the street cant tell.
we talked about who should know, and she works for a large company and only the person that hired her and her boss know she is.
she doesnt want to tell every person in the world she is, because some people just dont know how to deal with it, and if people dont need to know. like her boss, its really nobodys business.
but for her family was a deal breaker. when we first met i had only had casual encounters with ts, so it was all a big learning curve for me.

Originally Posted by ila

Thankyou very much.

You're very welcome. ila.

[fuzzybad]

All my friends know that I date t-girls, it's not a big deal for me. Also mom knows, it took her a while but she came around. I haven't told dad, as far as he knows my gf is a genetic girl. He's probably happier not knowing.

[me4ladyboy]

I don't advertise it as in "her is my g/f, she is a ladyboy". I just dated her. if people knew, I did not care, if they did not know, I did not care. If it bothered them, that's their problem, not mine. When she (Filipina) visited me in Korea when I worked there, there were a lot of American guys flirting with her when we were out. SO, I guess they did not know. But, other Asians would figure it out faster.

[Relic119]

Before now the only person that knew I liked ladyboys was my best friend but I have recently told my family they where understanding and made no fuss about my choice my desition in telling them was that I had to be up front I don't like hiding things from my family that and the relationship with my ladyboy girlfriend is getting pretty serious and looking very promising

[zag]

the people who matter to me are the only people I've told,family and a few close friends.........I know a lot of guys are scared to let anyone know and keep it a secret but for me being open has caused no problems.

[Hourglass]

No, nobody in my everyday life knows. I live in one of those unfortunate areas where people's minds are narrow and they tend to ridicule everything (or anyone) they can't understand or accept.

People talk these days of why everyone spends so much time on their computers (or smartphones or iPads or whathaveyou); I wonder if it's occurred to them than perhaps the reason we spend so much time looking at screens is because the faces we encounter in our quote-unquote "real life" are so often harsh and judgmental?

[Sheriff001]

One friend of mine knows, bug my g/f does not. He and I used to watch porn back when we were in college, and he'd sometimes slip in a shemale vid. It was odd at first, but I got into it too. Apart from that, nobody knows.

[kenstar]

Originally Posted by ladyboys rule

the only person that knows i like trannys is my mate who knows about your love for them

yeah like no one knows, it's weird but it's never come up, Ive been asked if im gay before but the answer is of course no. I should just say I'm bi but I really dont find dudes attractive unless their in drag, But I like penises and vaginas so I guess that makes me bi, even though im really mostly only attracted to t-girls.

Not that I hide any of this just dont run around town talking about it (everyone here is a fucking square). In fact next time I will say it loud and proud, I LOVE TRANNYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


"i'm Ken Star and I approve this message"

[Stasche49]

Originally Posted by kenstar

yeah like no one knows, it's weird but it's never come up, Ive been asked if im gay before but the answer is of course no. I should just say I'm bi but I really dont find dudes attractive unless their in drag, But I like penises and vaginas so I guess that makes me bi, even though im really mostly only attracted to t-girls.

Not that I hide any of this just dont run around town talking about it (everyone here is a fucking square). In fact next time I will say it loud and proud, I LOVE TRANNYS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


"i'm Ken Star and I approve this message"

I would like to think that my friends would mind their own business. I wouldn't my girl around friends, u can't trust them round beautiful girls. So if I find a girl on this site, I will treat her like a lady.

[mrrickers]

No one knows about my love for tgirls or shemales. I have not and probably will never tell anyone. I live with an exgirlfriend who is a serious b*&^% and we do not get along. As for my parents, not a chance. Friends no way. I spend a ton of time alone and I found that these lovely ladies are the best of both worlds. It is what it is, but at least someone now knows and that is cool

[wellyooks]

I suspect one family member is aware of my interest.

[MxKanAmrKan]

Originally Posted by ladyboys rule

the only person that knows i like trannys is my mate who knows about your love for them

my wife knows and she is ok with it...and we even bought the mia isabella strap on and she has used it on me...i have the best wife hehehe

[humbolt77]

Good post, my wife kind of knows I'm into LB's but I don't know how much she knows, we kind of joke about it sometimes, and I try and change the subject! But I guess she would be cool about it as long as it was nothing more than sexual attraction. I'm sure a lot of women find the fascination less threatening than lust for another female, maybe they see it as just a kink and therefore ok... maybe.

[CatOfNineTails]

Only the tgirls I sleep with.

[advfun]

My wife does and she often reads this forum with me. She loves them nearly as much as I do!!!

[loveladyboy69]

only my self

[cwjakesteel]

Only my best friend (male) whom I've known since kindergarten.

And this other friend (female) who shares my interests and so we get excited about it together.

[darkwilliam]

My two closest friends, both gay, and my girlfriend tho as someone else noted I don't think she realizes the extent. When I told her the response was "well that's okay, what do you plan to do about it?" thinking I was announcing my impending sidewalk shuffle. Then there's y'all and a couple dating sites over the years.

[guiltydreamer]

My wife discovered my predilection for hot Asian girls with a penis three weeks ago.
As you may be able to imagine, that generated a rather intense conversation... I think the relationship can now best be described as "frosty"....
She now knows about my cheating ways - fucking and sucking with gorgeous girls with cocks.......

[littletwink]

My wife and several girls I'm close with know. Only a 2-3 of my guy friends know and 1 I haven't seen in over 20 years.

[josejaxon]

I never heard about trannys so can you clarify more information about it so we can explain better and if you update some pictures of them here so you will get more and frequent replies for it. So you have to first set a proper picture or video here about tranny.

[alan74]

My wife knows about my interest in t girls . I told her about it very early in our relationship. She is fine with it and we have had times when we have watched tranny porn together. She would feel threatened if i was showing interest in other (genetic )women but she doesnt mind me looking at t girls.

[StellaDixxie]

everyone but strangers know.

[spike_40]

Does anyone else know you like trannys.

YES most of my close friends do they include straight couples singles. They all support me and my search for the right partner, I want to give my respect and love and wish for the same in return.
Does this mean I am gay ?? YES

[Stewie7]

Only my Ex-girlfriend knows. She explored my computer and found tgirls pics and clips. Well, she said that those clips made her horny too.

[Ras2232]

No one else knows. I don't know how to explain it. I don't identify as gay. Love women but love trannies more. How do you explain that as a successful professional with 4 kids! Have experimented with guys but it doesn't work. Do love trannies.

[LuvTSLB]

Just me, myself, and I

And the TS/ TG / LB / TV's I've chatted with and / or Shagged over the past few years.

[eyeluvts]

My wife knows, it was a killer for our sex life I am afraid but she is happy for me to pursue sex with transsexuals if I like. So far I have had sex with a few transsexual escorts which has been amazing.

[a9127]

Originally Posted by ila

I have never come right out and said that I like transwomen just as I have never come right out and said that I like GG's. I'm sure my co-workers and friends have an idea as I have brought up trans issues to them. I always talk in respectful manner about transwomen and I always try to present the transwomen's point of view when I talk about trans issues. I also don't hesitate to correct people when they don't refer to transwomen in feminine terms. It's not always easy to correct people and get them to accept what I tell them, but I do persist. I've also found that the more I talk about transwomen the more accepting my friends and co-workers have become.

If anyone ever asks me directy if I like transwomen then my reply will be "yes, I definitely do."

As far as my own situation. Yes, I think just about everyone knows by now.

[waine80]

no one knows, only me and my computer lol

[LadyboyJerker]

My girlfriend and two friends know.
It was really difficult telling those friends but was so easy telling my girl.
She always jokes around about buying a strap-on for me.

[omar2000]

i want a girlfriend her please tell her to hook me up

[aguy]

It's a personal thing so I don't share it with anyone.

[ila]

Originally Posted by aguy

I just saw I answered it again!

Just think of it as reinforcing your position.

[davshm]

Well, only my close friend and of course my date t-girls.

[virtualflowe]

I've never talked about sex with friends, much less t-gurls. It's not like we are religious or prudish. Well, maybe a little of the latter.

Anyways, the closest I know about someone else I personally know that might like t-gurls is a friend's brother had a transexual porn DVD.

I would love to meet others and have open conversations about our shared interest but at the same time, I acknowledge that I mostly objectify t-gurls.

Whilst I know I'd be able to have friendships with t-gurls, my initial motivation to want to get to know them is sexual - and perhaps that is not a good place to start a relationship from.

[a9127]

Probably everyone I know. My experience seems to be very different than many on TLB. I am very fortunate to have had the support of my family and friends especially growing up. My first girlfriend was transgender. I’ve been married twice and dated cis and trans women. I have Gay, Lesbian, and Trans friends and am active in several organizations in the Indianapolis area. I’ve been on this site with straight friends looking at pictures and discussing the femininity and beauty of the models. My friends have read a few of my fantasy stories as well. My wife has even been on this site (she’s more worried about my crushes on Hayley Williams and Dove Cameron… )

One of my closest friends is Gay. He and I are both academic advisors for LGBT students at our university. Never had any issues. At most, there’s probably people who think I’m Gay or Bi. No one says anything. At least not to my face. When Stephanie (she was known as Stephen back then) and I were first friends, I’m positive my Mom and Dad thought we were Gay. After my Mom passed away, I was going through some of her stuff and found a lot of literature on “Is your son gay?” My Dad thought all the bands I listened to “looked like girls” and of course my own hair was pretty long when I was a teenager. However, my Mom and Dad always liked Stephanie and accepted us as “really good friends” (although I think they knew there was more going on.)

I plan on going to our local TDOR again this year. My main “cause” has always been stopping the violence against transgender people. November 20th is the generally recognized day but we always seem to have ours on a different day.

[Boner]

I only have one friend who knows. My present circumstances don't allow me to really act on my attraction to the ladies.

[lordscott]

To explain farther so far at the moment no knows about my attraction to shemales,ladyboys,Tgirls & trannies but however sorry if i put myself down just being honest about myself but i doubt she'll want a 29 year old+ virgin man like me anyway especially when i have a small penis curse & when & if she has bigger penis then mine.

Sorry if i put myself when I'm not just being honest so so far no knows my attraction to shemales,ladyboys,Tgirls & trannies at the moment i guess I'll leave it here or at least for now feel free to respond what i said through PM if you want to

Originally Posted by lordscott

To explain farther so far at the moment no knows about my attraction to shemales,ladyboys,Tgirls & trannies but however sorry if i put myself down just being honest about myself but i doubt she'll want a 29 year old+ virgin man like me anyway especially when i have a small penis curse & when & if she has bigger penis then mine.

Sorry if i put myself when I'm not just being honest so so far no knows my attraction to shemales,ladyboys,Tgirls & trannies at the moment i guess I'll leave it here or at least for now feel free to respond what i said through PM if you want to

It's not your size that matters. It's what's in your mind and your willingness to please your partner that counts.

[Alis]

no one knows I'm into shemales, no one...
maybe because I'm a girl and it makes the issues harder...
so it's my little passion and secret for now