Does anyone believe that M2F Girls are closer than you think?

[smc]

Originally Posted by darklord666

Well I may be new here but I think that some of the replies here are a little too harsh.

The OP had a question, one of those 'off the top of your head' thoughts. It wasn't meant to be a deep philosophical debate nor, I presume, was it meant to cause offense. ...

One thing about "off the top of [one's] head" thinking is that it keeps people from stopping for a moment and thinking about the words they use. What you characterize as "a little too harsh" or responses provoked by language. It is our responsibility not simply to mean no offense, but ensure that they ways in which we communicate are not offensive even if that isn't our intent.

So, the point is that words do matter. I stand by what I wrote in response, meant to be a sarcastic response. I have no doubt that Jen and Anna will stand by their posts, too, although I wouldn't presume to speak for either of them.

[transjen]

I think the point should be made that not every M2F wants or is in the adult industry, some of us just live an everyday normal boring life
I just want to be one of the girls and blend in to socrity
I just want to go about my life with no one raising an eyebrow and questioning whether i'm male or female or a mix
I'm Jennifer i am strong i am invinvincable i am woman
Jerseygirl Jen

[smc]

Originally Posted by transjen

I think the point should be made that not every M2F wants or is in the adult industry, some of us just live an everyday normal boring life
I just want to be one of the girls and blend in to socrity
I just want to go about my life with no one raising an eyebrow and questioning whether i'm male or female or a mix
I'm Jennifer i am strong i am invinvincable i am woman
Jerseygirl Jen

And this is why we love you, Jen.

[franalexes]

Do you think that many of the genetic girls you know personally or see everyday in passing could very well be one? ( T-gurl)

Do you think people you meet everyday lack in beauty, braun, brains or social skills?
What, does Gieco use funny ad's to sell insurance?

[SluttyShemaleAnna]

Originally Posted by smc

And this is why we love you, Jen.

I thought we loved Jen cos of her cracking tits... Or is that why you love me? Oh wait, I've not got any tits! someone must have stolen them in the night!

[smc]

Originally Posted by SluttyShemaleAnna

I thought we loved Jen cos of her cracking tits... Or is that why you love me? Oh wait, I've not got any tits! someone must have stolen them in the night!

I should not have used "we." Jen knows why I love her.

[darklord666]

Originally Posted by smc

One thing about "off the top of [one's] head" thinking is that it keeps people from stopping for a moment and thinking about the words they use. What you characterize as "a little too harsh" or responses provoked by language. It is our responsibility not simply to mean no offense, but ensure that they ways in which we communicate are not offensive even if that isn't our intent.

So, the point is that words do matter. I stand by what I wrote in response, meant to be a sarcastic response. I have no doubt that Jen and Anna will stand by their posts, too, although I wouldn't presume to speak for either of them.

I do understand what you are saying SMC, but the trans-gendered community is still a 'minority', just as blacks, Chinese, gays, and the disabled are a 'minority' and as such the 'majority' often lack understanding about the issues that these groups face. From time to time some will 'slip up'.

For the first few years of my interests in 'trans-females' I gave little thought to their lives. Back then, to me, they existed only on the internet and only for as long as it took for me to satiate my urges and 'pop one off'. Once I ?came? and switched my PC off, these females vanished into nothingness. Obviously, I have grown a little since then and I am aware that they have trans-gendered females experience the same depths of complexity that we all face in our daily lives if not even more.

My point is that all of us 'trans lovers' are at different stages of awareness and our comments will sometime reflect that. Constructive criticism is often better than just criticism. I would hope that if I stumble in my 'gender nouns' that someone here would be kind enough to gently correct me, after all we are all here for the same reason, to share our appreciation of these fine females.