Is "feminine gay male" new construct or where are borders?

[RawrKitten]

Originally Posted by smc

I must wonder aloud what the real motivation for this discussion could be? After all, the simple solution to a problem of "rights and support" and the possible recognition of a class of people or the stripping of those "rights and support" is very simple: HAVE NO "BORDERS," period!

Why must we discuss whether a human being is "in fact," self-identifies as, or is characterized by others as a "feminine gay male" or a "transsexual" or "whatever"? A simple study of human history reveals that labels such as these never exist to liberate people, but to confine them. The solution is to transform the world so that there are no such differences, except in the way each of us choose to portray ourself to others.

Yes, the OP is correct, there is a "trap" here. Unfortunately, the OP has both fallen into the trap and perpetuated the trap by resetting the trap with his post. I do not think it is his intent, but there you have it ... in my opinion.

I completely agree, why should we care about labels?

This sort of discussion is awkward at best and insulting and demeaning at worst. I don?t post on here as much as I used to but my feelings should be pretty obvious to anyone that knows me. I agree with smc that we should dispense with labels and learn to accept each other as unique individuals?that includes letting others determine for themselves how they choose to identify.

If anybody ever asks me I just tell them I'm a lesbian


OK, a lesbian that likes cock now and again - but a lesbian all the same...

[sosed]

Thank you for your answers and I apology if I offend anyone. I think you are correct, that it is not worth to care about borders and labels and all those different terms although I'm still confused what is right and what is wrong. But I'm sure that time will tell what is correct.

[JodieTs]

Originally Posted by Natalie_J

If anybody ever asks me I just tell them I'm a lesbian


OK, a lesbian that likes cock now and again - but a lesbian all the same...

Oh you mean bisexual.....

[JodieTs]

Quack! quack!