Does liking shemales make you gay?

[jbhk197]

Hi,
I guess I should introduce myself, Ive been roaming around here for the past month or so. Lots of good info here, seems to be nice people around.
I never knew I was into this TS scene thing or whatever its called until a month ago. Had a a few beers in my new neighborhood then next thing you know, im in a ladys flat and you get the rest im sure.
From what I read it seems like a fantasy to some to have this happen, but I honestly never thought about it until it was over and done with. I just rolled with it you know?
I came to realize that I should just chalk it up to another new experience in life. The only problem is I cant stop thinking about it. I know im not gay, I don't even like looking at myself naked in a mirror let alone another guy. But this is all to new to me.
A bit confused here is all. If anyone has any advice I would love to hear it.
thanks

[smc]

Originally Posted by jbhk197

Hi,
I guess I should introduce myself, Ive been roaming around here for the past month or so. Lots of good info here, seems to be nice people around.
I never knew I was into this TS scene thing or whatever its called until a month ago. Had a a few beers in my new neighborhood then next thing you know, im in a ladys flat and you get the rest im sure.
From what I read it seems like a fantasy to some to have this happen, but I honestly never thought about it until it was over and done with. I just rolled with it you know?
I came to realize that I should just chalk it up to another new experience in life. The only problem is I cant stop thinking about it. I know im not gay, I don't even like looking at myself naked in a mirror let alone another guy. But this is all to new to me.
A bit confused here is all. If anyone has any advice I would love to hear it.
thanks

It's somewhat unclear as to what "advice" you "would love to hear," but I'm guessing since you posted in this thread you're concerned about the "gay" label.

I suggest you read this thread. Basically, you'll find people are in two main "camps" on this issue.

One camp includes those who are fretting about the "gay" label.

The other camp, in which I proudly include myself, doesn't give a damn what anyone else thinks, and rejects labels.

My advice is that you put yourself in the second camp, right away, and stop fretting. You are what you are, you like what you like, and who the hell cares what anyone else thinks.

[jbhk197]

Thanks SMC,
Im not gay, I know that, I love women as much as my one time thing that just happened. Was definetly a mind blowing experience is all. I cant seem to stop thinking of it and "her"
And other people....could care less. Hong Kong is full of self centered, materialistic followers that seem to have their head up their asses.
just musing/re-living the moment I guess you would call it.
For a one night thing it really had an effect on me is all. I keep going back to the same bar looking for her. Great person in general to be with not to mention the half drunken tumble in the sack that makes me keep looking for her.

[smc]

Originally Posted by jbhk197

Thanks SMC,
Im not gay, I know that, I love women as much as my one time thing that just happened. Was definetly a mind blowing experience is all. I cant seem to stop thinking of it and "her"
And other people....could care less. Hong Kong is full of self centered, materialistic followers that seem to have their head up their asses.
just musing/re-living the moment I guess you would call it.
For a one night thing it really had an effect on me is all. I keep going back to the same bar looking for her. Great person in general to be with not to mention the half drunken tumble in the sack that makes me keep looking for her.

Well, let me give you one more piece of advice. Be careful about using "her" -- that is, putting quotation marks around the pronoun. If I were her, I might just be offended.

[JodieTs]

"When you have anal sex, it's gay male sex
but when I have anal sex it's a woman having anal sex,
because...


I have a girly bum"

[ila]

Originally Posted by JodieTs

...I have a girly bum"

And I have no doubt that it's a soft yet firm, beautiful, kissable, touchable bum.

[JodieTs]

Oh yes
I love my bum.
& thank you.

A few months, my surgeon {for FFS} suggested
a body fat repositioning procedure.
A friend underwent this at christmas and the results are stunning.
So when my surgeon started talking in a phone call, admittedly, about all the areas he could work on
when he mentioned my bum
I shrugged as it's exactly the way I like
which is a fluke of genetics with the later influence of estrogen over the last 6 years.