Ejaculation

[murdoc]

The orgasm is the important part,but a cumshot is just some nice icing on the cake....or better yet straight in my mouth

[merelypink]

from porn we have been conditioned so to the cum shot...!!

[randolph]

Originally Posted by merelypink

from porn we have been conditioned so to the cum shot...!!

Actually, ejaculation(cumming) and orgasm are two separate events. Porn assumes they are the same thing. With Tantric Yoga, its possible to enjoy hours of orgasmic pleasure without cumming. Withholding the semen results in increased and prolonged erotic sensitivity. Tantric adepts can withhold their semen for weeks or months while enjoying an active sex life.

[smc]

Originally Posted by randolph

Actually, ejaculation(cumming) and orgasm are two separate events. Porn assumes they are the same thing. With Tantric Yoga, its possible to enjoy hours of orgasmic pleasure without cumming. Withholding the semen results in increased and prolonged erotic sensitivity. Tantric adepts can withhold their semen for weeks or months while enjoying an active sex life.

But could I go that long without a drink of that semen? I don't think so.

[randolph]

Originally Posted by smc

But could I go that long without a drink of that semen? I don't think so.

It would be like vintage wine, it gets better with age.

[Tread]

Originally Posted by yokayoka

i was wondering... is it really that important to you guys that she can come..? Is it less enjoyable if she doesn't?

Is it important in what context?
In porn, fantasy and dreams it is for many.
In a proper relationship it shouldn?t, and I think it isn?t.
Porn mostly shows only a distorted image of sexuality. The real thing differs from it. Common female fantasies often contain sex with strangers, this wouldn?t even work for long in real life (o.k. maybe for swingers). In a relationship sexual satisfaction is an important part for both and not a single aspect of it.

from porn we have been conditioned so to the cum shot...!!

I would think most people with a penis have conditioned their self to a cumshot. Cum is connected with a successful orgasm.

Originally Posted by randolph

With Tantric Yoga, its possible to enjoy hours of orgasmic pleasure without cumming. Withholding the semen results in increased and prolonged erotic sensitivity. Tantric adepts can withhold their semen for weeks or months while enjoying an active sex life.

I had never something to do with Tantric Yoga, but I managed to have orgasms without ejaculation a few times, and far from weeks or months. To some degree I can confirm what you write about it here and elsewhere, but if I don?t cum once in approximate in a 3/4hour the balls start to hurt in addition. Also an orgasm without ejaculation is placed in the lower end of the quality of orgasms. I prefer to cum.
Does the philosophies or believes of Tantra add some spirituality to it, that would make it ?better??

[randolph]

Tread

Does the philosophies or believes of Tantra add some spirituality to it, that would make it ?better??

Yes indeed, this involves the kundalini aspect of Tantric Yoga. It is the discovery of the inner female, often call Uma Parvati, the goddess of knowledge and wisdom. Worshiping her brings on unimagined bliss.