Any shemale who wanted to be "unshemaled" (a return to origins?)

[JodieTs]

I always use the term he or she when referring to a person
where their appearance demonstrates how they wish to be identified.

Where it is ambiguous or they are genger-fluid or gender-blur
or as in this case de-transitioning with a huge range of compromise,
Out of respect, I refer to the person in the non-gender plural.
This way I am not imposing my own perception onto them.
It remains neutral.

When I talk to a stranger and the conversation turns to their significant-other
I always refer to this person as their partner
as I don't know if they are married or dating, nor the gender of the other person.
Not everyone is in a g=heterosexual relationship.

I myself am Polyamorous, having both a male and a female significant other.