Why are shemales so hard to find ?? :(

[R2000]

In our world, actually shemales aren't yet welcome/accepted as they desire/deserve, and that's comprensible, just watching the gay racism around every place, remember that the almost all shemale population starts her transition from being bi or gay, so they come from really difficult realities and choices.

[BlueRaven88]

I actually read quite a few reasons as to why ladyboys do this while I was first researching the topic almost a year ago. Ladyboys feel very self-conscious about their looks as it is, so they have EXTREMELY low self esteem and self confidence. Now imagine that they like a guy they know. Could be an average Joe like you or me, could be some tight-butted muscled up jock. Either way, she has liked this guy for ages, and she finally gets the balls (no pun intended) to talk to him and ask him out. In this ladyboy's mind, there are 3 outcomes from here.

1. He will say yes, she dates him, she tells him that she is a ladyboy and he has no problem with it, so they live happily ever after making love day in and day out. This is the LEAST likely thing to happen, maybe a 2% chance at best.

2. He will say no, right on the spot. Either because he doesn't like her or he is already taken. Not a very likely scenario but could still happen, maybe 35% chance of occurring; and it would be a bit of a blow to her self esteem but she could recover.

3. He says yes, they go out on the date, she tells him that she is a ladyboy. He is disgusted at this fact, makes a scene in the restaurant or wherever they are, and tells her never to talk to or call him again. She would be crushed. This is about a 63% chance of happening.

See, in a ladyboy's mind, they are nothing special and are in fact inferior to women. While you, me and Jesus all know this is downright garbage, that in fact she is equal to, if not superior to women, she will avoid approaching any man until she is confident enough with her looks and with herself that she can recover from being dumped like scenario 3.

That's about all the insight I can give for now sorry

[tlover]

Good info and insight blue.
I suppose we here are in a minority as well being tgirl lovers, if we got on a date with a girl and she told us she was a ladyboy we would be more than happy about it, id be ecstatic.
We here are all ladyboy lovers but we are a minority, most guys would be very upset finding that out as you said.
So we have to see things for the ladyboys point of view not ours.
It must be very a frighting situation for a ladyboy to go out on a date, it must take incredible courage to tell someone your secret and there would never be a good time to do it.
Very scary

[ila]

Originally Posted by BlueRaven88

See, in a ladyboy's mind, they are nothing special and are in fact inferior to women. While you, me and Jesus all know this is downright garbage, that in fact she is equal to, if not superior to women, she will avoid approaching any man until she is confident enough with her looks and with herself that she can recover from being dumped like scenario 3.

Very well put Blue. Most of us here would be ecstatic to be with a shemale. For us they are special. It must take a lot of courage on a shemale's part to approach any man, but most men cannot imagine what a shemale goes through.

[weronika21ts]

sometimes i afraid go out, to much perver who wan't hurt us