Some Advice Please

[smc]

Originally Posted by jimyzun

My intention is to photograph the whole outing and with her consent, let you all know how it went.

My first bit of advice is to make sure you have her consent for the photography. That may be what you intended to write, but what you actually wrote is that the consent you plan to obtain is for letting us "all know how it went."

[ila]

Just because she agreed to go out with you doesn't mean that she agreed to sex or pictures or groping. My advice to you is to relax and let a relatiojnship develop naturally. You will soon know if there is more than just friendship involved. Also if you plan to continue in a relationship with her then don't take her picture and post it on the internet. If you don't plan on going into this with the best intentions then don't meet her at all, anytime or anywhere.

[seanchai]

If you were going out with a girl who was not a transgender, would you photograph how "it all went" and put it on a forum also?

[jimyzun]

Originally Posted by seanchai

If you were going out with a girl who was not a transgender, would you photograph how "it all went" and put it on a forum also?

I think it would depend on the nature of the forum. In any case I don?t intend to push things at all as I specially like her, she?s extremely feminine and an excellent conversationist, but I have a feeling that she?ll be game for a bit of sex, by the way she asked how the berths were laid out and if the bathroom had a douche. Although sex is not first on the list of activities for the day, I wanted some tips so as not to spoil things due to my ignorance.
Regarding the photography, she herself said "can I take my camera?".

[jimyzun]

I realize my post sounded like I was going to give details of my encounter with Jackie, but when I said I would let you know how it went, I meant something like: It went great... or it went just nice, or pleasant, or even it didn?t work. But no more that this type of comment, and by no means any morbid details of the encounter itself, something I never have done and never will. Regarding the photos, my intention is to take as many as I can and ask her if she would like me to post them in a prestigious forum of which I am a member, giving her the chance to choose which ones to post, if any.