I finally did it !(lost my virginity as a girl)

[franalexes]

The last time a guy tried to abuse me that way I bumped him up two octives.

So you think you have met someone that knows how to make love.
Let's hope the next time you find someone that can make you feel loved. ( as opposed to a pisspot to shoot a load into.)

[ila]

Originally Posted by franalexes

The last time a guy tried to abuse me that way I bumped him up two octives.

So you think you have met someone that knows how to make love.
Let's hope the next time you find someone that can make you feel loved. ( as opposed to a pisspot to shoot a load into.)

Fran, I agree with you. The OP's experience looks to me more like abuse than anything else. I would advise the OP to not go back to the same person as it is just a power trip and a feeling of superiority for him as well as just thinking of himself and his sexual gratification only.

I urge the OP to look for someone that will treat her with respect; don't settle for anything less than someone that will respect you and be concerned about your feelings, needs, and wants. It may not be easy to find such a person, but in the end you will respect yourself and feel good about yourself.

[franalexes]

Originally Posted by ila

Fran, I agree with you. The OP's experience looks to me more like abuse than anything else. I would advise the OP to not go back to the same person as it is just a power trip and a feeling of superiority for him as well as just thinking of himself and his sexual gratification only.

I urge the OP to look for someone that will treat her with respect; don't settle for anything less than someone that will respect you and be concerned about your feelings, needs, and wants. It may not be easy to find such a person, but in the end you will respect yourself and feel good about yourself.

It strikes me Ila that whoever gets you will loose their heart.

[Mel Asher]

While I am glad you got the experience of being satisfactorily reamed, I'm afraid I fully agree with the view that sex without feeling loved is a very poor second best. It is useful to scratch a persistent itch, but being sweet-talked and romanced has no equal, and the anticipation makes everything so worthwhile. So next time up the ante, raise the stakes, and go for the real thing. It will be well worth your time and patience.

Make all your need and beauty worthwhile.

[shadows]

Originally Posted by franalexes

The last time a guy tried to abuse me that way I bumped him up two octives.

So you think you have met someone that knows how to make love.
Let's hope the next time you find someone that can make you feel loved. ( as opposed to a pisspot to shoot a load into.)

For me, being in love would be far more satisfying that just making love. Don't get me wrong, sex is a good thing, but love is the spice that gives it a flavour that cannot be matched.

[Loki1913]

Originally Posted by franalexes

The last time a guy tried to abuse me that way I bumped him up two octives.

So you think you have met someone that knows how to make love.
Let's hope the next time you find someone that can make you feel loved. ( as opposed to a pisspot to shoot a load into.)

I agree with this.

I fell hard for a transwoman about a year ago, and I went to the ends of the earth to treat her like the elegant lady she is. If a guy doesn't treat you like a princess, find someone who will...trust me, we do exist!

[lbnoob]

a real man woulda treated you like a lady

[ComeToButthead]

Congrats. Whatever you decide to do, just know there are actual nice good guys who will "use" and "abuse" you if you're into that. You might even make a friend.