Question for Ladyboys: Sex as ladyboy vs plain vanilla gay sex

[getinsideme]

Originally Posted by no1000

Femininity has everything to do with it for me as well. Even just a fem gay dude doesn't do it. I still view him as a HE. Femininity has a lot more to do that just looks and actions of the person. It is how that person views the world, themselves and the people around them. I can distinguish between a fem gay dude and a girl who was born male (I hate using the term tgirl/ladyboy/shemale) in the first minute or two of meeting even if they both look identical and everything in between. I think I've had enough encounters/conversations to tell the difference between many categories in this field. I can explain further if you want but since I'm at work I'll have to keep in short for now.

Thank you for your reply. And, I apologize for the delay. I would really appreciate it if you explained what you mean.

Here's my situation. I think I'm a girl, but I'm not sure and I might just be a really femmy gay. I want to know what the difference is. And, if your claim is true (and you can tell the difference when you meet one), I want to know how you can tell the difference. What kinds of things should I be looking for in myself, to tell? When you're born *apparently* male and everyone treats you like a guy all the time, and you are "accused" of thinking like a typical guy, it's easy to get confused when you sometimes feel like a girl.

I want to know whether I'm just a bit crazy or whether I'm really a girl trapped in the wrong body (along some relatively good coping skills).

Any input would be appreciated. And, yes, I know how ridiculous this question sounds.