Why do we like dick?

[jamforcella]

Originally Posted by wxhluyp

Hello there, i'm new here!

Although i'm straight in the everyday usage of the word, technically there are no distinct or stable orientations.

I have quite a different take on this topic. For me, it seems my fetishism is born out of the eventual sexualization of childhood trauma; For whatever specifics i'm not sure, but my masculinty, my identity was called into question. It is possible that there is no obvious event to draw on, but there were reverberations. My earliest memories of what would have been wet dreams at about the age of eight involved me appearing at school after growing my hair or being alice in wonderland. Whats these dreams had in common is that the femininity was subjected, self conscious and turned me on, where in the past it was traumatic.

A "subjected femininity" can take many forms; I often like to imagine myself in drag or as a shemale, utterly feminine except for the nessesary "symbolic" remnant which allows me to recognise myself. A typical, logical extension of this scenario can invole me being made love to by a masculine man. The thought of two men having sex does little for me, or even repulses me... But if there is an imagined or visible feminization somewhere is there, then i'm good. Even I like to imagine that "this" is happenning to someone else, that this boy is being subjected to this or that scenario.

So for me, what can be sexy about cock is how it functions in the context of "subjected femininity".


Some of the theorizing on this thread has been really dodgy, I recommend (and love) Cal Y. Pygia's essays from Literotica

I think exactly the way you think!!!!

[wxhluyp]

Originally Posted by jamforcella

I think exactly the way you think!!!!

I have been trying to theorize my fetish for a while now and coincidentally a day or two ago Amy referred to a theory called "Autogynephilia" which thoroughly matches that what I've been thinking *above*. Google search the short essay called "Emasculation trauma and autogynephilia".

I would like to reiterate the work of Cal Y. Pygia. check out "The Bisexualizing Effect of Erotica", "Procreative Fiction", "Transsexuals: The Better Choice", "How to Beautify Your Cunt" and "Thoughts on Pussies".

I don't really think anyone has really said WHY they like dick. What is the role of cock in the fantasy?

[candypops]

Originally Posted by wxhluyp

I don't really think anyone has really said WHY they like dick. What is the role of cock in the fantasy?

it's so hot, so hard, such a beautifully angry red and silky and throbs with a life of its own and can render its owner powerless...

[smc]

Originally Posted by candypops

it's so hot, so hard, such a beautifully angry red and silky and throbs with a life of its own and can render its owner powerless...

Take away the "angry" part and add how nicely it fills a behind and that it spurts out the most delicious elixir, and candypops' answer pretty much sums it up for me.

[The Conquistador]

Originally Posted by wxhluyp

I don't really think anyone has really said WHY they like dick. What is the role of cock in the fantasy?

Probably the fact that women don't usually come with a penis and that such a sight is strange but interesting and somewhat taboo.

[wxhluyp]

Originally Posted by TheAngryPostman

Probably the fact that women don't usually come with a penis and that such a sight is strange but interesting and somewhat taboo.

Perhaps for some, simply the cock psychologically functions as it would for the "average" female?

Maybe it is masochistic?