Pretty Boys

[joeygetsit]

i see on all theses threads, new titles being invented..

all of the women are transexuels m2f whether there pre-op or post-op.

or you can call them shemales,trannies ect...

a ladyboy is a shemale ans also a transexuel...just diffrent words thats all.

now your version of a femboy looks like crossdressers.guys that live a men but dress up in women clothing. then you have tranvestities which never do any surgery to alter there bodies to look like a women, they just dress and live as women....crossdresser or dragqueen...gay or straight or bi men that have no desire ever to be a women but like to dressup...or do live shows dressed up as women.just because you see a shemale with no tits is because she cant afford them yet....now young guys starting out that have a fem look they could be called androgynis if i spelled that right....ok stop creating names and titles to understand this lifestyle....you have to venture away from your pc and go to a gayclub,where there will always be a transexuel...talk to her,hey buy her a drink and dance and then when your dating her shell fill you in on alot of info......

[smc]

Originally Posted by joeygetsit

i see on all theses threads, new titles being invented..

all of the women are transexuels m2f whether there pre-op or post-op.

or you can call them shemales,trannies ect...

a ladyboy is a shemale ans also a transexuel...just diffrent words thats all.

Such arrogance to title a post "lets set the record straight" and then proceed to determine for others what they will be called. This member completely misses the point. We are not making up new titles. The many thoughtful posts on this site that discuss what the member says are "just different words" (implying that they are not particularly important) are all anchored by a common theme: that people have the right to self-determine their gender identity. We also know, from some of our own trans members, that their is a strong aversion (granted, not complete) to the wordy "tranny" outside of the porn world. And we know from some our Asian members who prefer to be called ladyboys that they do not like the word "shemale."

Yes, words matter, joeygetsits, as I am sure you would agree if someone went around referring to you in a way that undercut the very way that you personally see yourself.

[tonywaits]

Originally Posted by smc

Such arrogance to title a post "lets set the record straight" and then proceed to determine for others what they will be called. This member completely misses the point. We are not making up new titles. The many thoughtful posts on this site that discuss what the member says are "just different words" (implying that they are not particularly important) are all anchored by a common theme: that people have the right to self-determine their gender identity. We also know, from some of our own trans members, that their is a strong aversion (granted, not complete) to the wordy "tranny" outside of the porn world. And we know from some our Asian members who prefer to be called ladyboys that they do not like the word "shemale."

Yes, words matter, joeygetsits, as I am sure you would agree if someone went around referring to you in a way that undercut the very way that you personally see yourself.

You are correct, most despise the word Shemale and Tranny. But, what is funny is that a certain portion of the Transgender's, especially the ones I know, they use the term tranny, like black people use the "N" word. It's OK to call each other tranny, or they will refer to someone as a "hot tranny mess" which as you can imagine, isn't a good thing. LMAO