being together without losing her

[crsd1970]

First of all, thank you to those that gave advice. I can tell you that I did talk to her, and she got kinda emotional because I said I was afraid to hurt her, which got me emotional as well. We went out and had a long conversation, but let me just say that we are now both on the same page. And, she told me openly that my fears were all wrong.
I'd rather keep the details to ourselves, but let me just say that we had the most intimate and downright beautiful experience you can probably have as a couple. I'll let you know how it all develops, but I'm so glad I told her how I felt . Thanks to all for your advice.