a diffent kind of 'admirer'

[GRH]

I should clarify my stance. I'm NOT very vanilla and I like bondage and BDSM type stuff. I can understand powerplay.

And if this sort of thing turns you on Anna, then maybe you're not as bothered by it as I am.

But to me, this guy is not engaging you in a deliberate, consensual powerplay. He is engaging in a one-sided powerplay...And not because you necessarily like the feeling of being degraded or ordered around. He's engaging in it because he harbors homophobic sentiments and other issues. To me, the whole thing reeks of instability, and I wouldn't be surprised if this guy was prone to violence after the fact.

Originally Posted by GRH

I should clarify my stance. I'm NOT very vanilla and I like bondage and BDSM type stuff. I can understand powerplay.

And if this sort of thing turns you on Anna, then maybe you're not as bothered by it as I am.

But to me, this guy is not engaging you in a deliberate, consensual powerplay. He is engaging in a one-sided powerplay...And not because you necessarily like the feeling of being degraded or ordered around. He's engaging in it because he harbors homophobic sentiments and other issues. To me, the whole thing reeks of instability, and I wouldn't be surprised if this guy was prone to violence after the fact.

That's pretty much what I was trying to get at in my post above - except you put it much better

[georgesoros]

all this handling of tgirls with cottonclothed hands wont make tgirls treated like girls. affirmative action just keeps things as it is you know. if a girl can be treated in a degrading way cause she is like x, y or z... and cause she wears a, b or c. and if a girl likes to get pissed in the face cause she has a birthmark beneath her ear, and likes to get spanked on the nose cause she was abused by a wolf when she was 19, then yes, let tgirls be treated with the same respect/disrespect or they will be treated like some alien-class humans with special treatment (good and bad).

some bs from me

There have been a greater number of disrespectful posts lately--many that ungender transwomen. It’s hard to respond to some of these posts because they are so poorly written--and you don’t know who you are talking to--it could be a 12 year old, an inmate serving a life sentence, a 75 year old grandmother, or President Obama. That is part of the problem with discussion forums--anyone can post anything under the cloak of anonymity. Unlike real life where ideas have consequences.

I wonder how far in the real world some of the members here would get with anyone while displaying the attitudes towards women that they show here? I personally don’t know any women who want to be degraded, humiliated, or abused.

As for transwomen being “real women.” They are. What is it that you don’t “get” about that? It’s quite simple actually. I suggest if you are serious about learning more, you read some of the posts from transwomen on this forum and do a little research on the Internet. What you see in pornography is a fantasy. If you think that all women really want to be “dominated” or “humiliated” or “abused” then I suggest you get some professional counseling--now. Before you have bigger problems.

[smc]

Originally Posted by aw9725

... Unlike real life where ideas have consequences. ... If you think that all women really want to be ?dominated? or ?humiliated? or ?abused? then I suggest you get some professional counseling--now. Before you have bigger problems.

I wish that the OP was the only one who might have "bigger problems." I'm afraid it is women who are most at risk.

Maybe they just want to meet these two...

(Sorry couldn't help it... )

Actually they look kinda like the guys I lift with.

[The Conquistador]

Don't be droppin the soap anytime soon...