a diffent kind of 'admirer'

[smc]

Originally Posted by SluttyShemaleAnna

Sooo, I'm hopefully meeting this guy this week, he wants me to suck his cock, to be more precise he wants me to only suck his cock.

He wants me to strip for him, pose in my underwear, he wants me too keep my knickers on the while time and stay tucked. He doesn't want to see my dick at all, then he wants me to get on my knees and give his a blowjob while he watches straight porn. I will suck and wank him in the horniest way I can, he will make me beg for it, then blow his load in my face as many times as possible, while I will not orgasm at all. He won't let me kiss him, my lips will be on his dick only, and I'll be bown on my knees as he stands over me at all times.

The last guy I was with was like this too. He wanted his cock sucked, but did not kiss tgirls and absolutely didn't want to see any cock except his own, I sucked his dick and got a rough throat fuck, then he came on my chest and I didn't cum at all. I was very satisfied with the encounter tho.

I happen to think it's sexy the powerplay in it, but I can see that it's also degrading to tgirls, tho this just makes it more taboo for me.

Any other guys like that out there? I suspect not on here, but what do you all think about this kind of guy? any other girls find it sexy or does that sound like the worst kind of guy?

I think the crux of your entire post, Anna, can be found in this quote: "... I can see that it's also degrading to tgirls, tho this just makes it more taboo for me."

As for your particular questions at the end: I am sure there are other guys like that out there. It's difficult to avoid psychoanalyzing, but it seems to me that this is a guy with a lot of "issues" to resolve. He doesn't want to see your cock, but he knows you have one. He wants to be sucked by someone with a cock, but he can't own that desire, so he seeks to mask it -- ridiculously -- by not allowing yours to be seen. The power play is that he dictates the rules, and in doing so he overcomes his cock desire for a while (or at least trumps it with something that gets him off more, which is the manipulative power of keeping yours tucked away).

I would be careful with this guy, Anna.

I won’t try to psychoanalyze him either, but I agree 100% with smc that “this is a guy with a lot of issues.” I don’t like the sound of it. Anna, I don’t know you, but I have really enjoyed your posts and I will assume you know this guy better than me. But, let me put it this way, if this were turned around and it were someone asking me to meet them under similar conditions I wouldn’t do it.

People like this can be dangerous. Please be careful.

[SJTCurious]

It sounds like you're conflicted. On the one hand it can be a lot of fun, but you really want something more.

[IronCity]

i find that rather disturbing... but if you are into that ..... go for it... just be careful that he is not a nut case that wants to harm you.

[GRH]

I wouldn't touch that with a ten foot pole. Since it seems this fellow has such a cock aversion, it wouldn't surprise me in the least if he was prone to violence should something go wrong-- such as coming "untucked."

[shadows]

Hello Anna.

Unlike the fellow that you are describing in the OP, I wouldn't particular enjoy an encounter like that.

While I certainly can't judge his character just by the description in your post, I would like to add my caution along with those of the others that have already posted in the thread(the world is a crazy place sometimes).

Judging from your posts here, you have a good head on your shoulders so I imagine that you would not take any undue risks.

It's just that we are your friends and we want you to be safe.

While something like that does sound sexy - at least the submission aspect does anyway - I'm sure you've met enough people to be able to judge when somebody is a bit dodgy or not. The fact that you're posting about it on here suggests to me you've got doubts.

My main worry about somebody like that would be if he was likely to get weird afterwards. Everything will be fine just as long as he can pretend that you're not a T-gurl while you're sucking his cock - watching straight porn is a dead giveaway - but once he's cum he might feel a bit differently about it...