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Old 11-17-2009
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Today was a “day off” and I have been reading a booklet I received at the remembrance ceremony titled "Made in God's Image" by Ann Thompson Cook.

It is a discussion of gender identity in our modern society and while the publication is associated with the Methodist Church, it is not overly religious in tone. I would reccomend it for anyone regardless of their faith. As part of my own education, I have found it very well written and thoughtful and it has answered many questions I have had including use of terminology.

Many people on this forum who are new could probably benefit from reading this booklet. Among other issues, it addresses the "Gay" question that seems to trouble so many on this forum. I personally found it supportive and reassuring of my own feelings and will most likely refer to it often as I come to better understand my sexuality.
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AW, do you have a link to a generalized article about the November 20th Transgender Day of Remembrance that I could copy and paste? The reason I ask is that I am a Moderator at another site and this is a topic that should be known.
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*facepalm*

And I am blind. SSL has a link to it at the top of the page. I will copy it from Egale and post it later today. Hopefully this will change(or at least enlighten) one of the member's minds over there about this.
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I have placed a copy of the article from Egale at the forum. I hope that at least one person there will have their eyes opened just as mine have been here.
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Aside from the “Remembrance” service being a significant part of my personal growth, it also turned out to be the “icebreaker” I have been seeking regarding sharing this part of myself with friends and family. The last few weeks have been interesting.

I publicized this event as well as the organization “Stopping the Hate” on my technology blog which is read by many of our students and faculty. So there is no hiding it now. Many I’ve talked to had no idea what “transgender” really meant. Or what kinds of “hate crimes” have been committed against transgender individuals. Or why I had an interest in it. At this point, I believe my friends and colleagues see me as primarily a supporter of “rights.”

But it has started the conversation…

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Aside from the "Remembrance" service being a significant part of my personal growth, it also turned out to be the "icebreaker" I have been seeking regarding sharing this part of myself with friends and family. The last few weeks have been interesting.

I publicized this event as well as the organization "Stopping the Hate" on my technology blog which is read by many of our students and faculty. So there is no hiding it now. Many I've talked to had no idea what "transgender" really meant. Or what kinds of "hate crimes" have been committed against transgender individuals. Or why I had an interest in it. At this point, I believe my friends and colleagues see me as primarily a supporter of "rights."

But it has started the conversation...
I applaud you, aw, for all that you have done to raise awareness of the plight of transgender people. I like that you have b een open with your friends and family about trans issues. I also like that you have provided support for transgender people through your blog.

I think you will find, as I did, that the more that one talks about trans issues and rights the easier it becomes. I have found it very natural to talk about everything trans now. My co-workers and friends listen to me as I raise issues. I've been very surprised at how supportive people are. I will continue, at every opportunity, to talk about trans issues and to raise awareness wherever and whenever I can.

In regards to the theme of this thread I have told all of my co-workers that tomorrow is the Transgender Day of Remembrance. I have also told them that I will be having my own little service at work tomorrow afternoon and that they are welcome to join me. I do hope that I get some participation from my co-workers.
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