How do you release your sexual desire?

[WudLuv2try]

EdwardSinclair : We are in the same boat...

I see your gf is pretty tough one...

"...but if I last even more than 30 mins with her she will complain that the reason I last so long to cum inside her is because I don't find her attractive anymore..."

Shit like this is exactly why you have hard time having sex with her. Same for me too.

I'll tell you.

I can't be 100% sure, but I swear my wife was feeling for how much cum I injected into her after sex. She's trying to see if there's enough cum to convince her that I haven't had sex with anyone on that day.

And that is such a turn off!! You know what I mean?

It's like this.

When I come home late, after I take my customer to dinner and stuff, or after I take my customer to golf, my wife will seduce me in most obvious way, and have sex with me. (Whether I want to or not.)

And when I cum, she will see if there's enough cum or not. If I had visited sex shop with the customer, then there should be very little cum. If I only had dinner, like I said I did, then there should be more cum.

I mean, I can't say for sure if THAT was what she was doing, but there are some things you can tell...

I don't know what I'm going to acheive by saying all this, and I hate to feel I'm talking crap about my wife, but I don't know....

[EdwardSinclair]

It just sounds to close to home for me, I can't give any advice on it but I can sure relate to it.

My gf will call me randomly from time to time, and if I don't pick up, she starts saying I'm with someone else, and is always suspicious I'm gonna leave her for someone younger... I think that's very similar behaviour to what your wife is doing to you!

Then sometimes she cries me a river, and I just feel powerless, completely and utterly useless! I hate feeling useless... how can I be expected to perform feeling useless??

I talk to her all the time, that I care and love her and reassure her. I mean I do that everyday, and I'm still doing this everyday for the past 2 or so years since all this started!

And I don't mind doing that, except for when I'm accused of something I haven't done or she starts acting weird and freaking out for no reason, then I feel like crap.

Frankly I just want her to be happy, I just wish things could be like they were 3 years ago, it was fantastic. I mean sometimes it still is, but there's a lot of annoying things in between.

It's a little selfish of me, but somehow I find a little comfort in reading about your experiences, because it makes me feel as if I'm not alone out here struggling with this crap. I wish it all works out between you and your wife. If anything I feel better for venting some of this stuff out, hope you do too!!

[WudLuv2try]

EdwardSinclair : "It's a little selfish of me, but somehow I find a little comfort in reading about your experiences, because it makes me feel as if I'm not alone out here struggling with this crap."

Same here man... :D

I've never had sex with anyone after I got married. UNTIL... -___- ,,

But that's another story... for another time......

But I'm telling you. Shit could happen in such a way, that you find yourself in the middle of it, and you don't even know how you got there.

[EdwardSinclair]

Well, I can relate to that too I'm afraid
I have been in this situation once in my life. Although I find myself thinking that, for all the guilt I got from it in the end... that one time is enough for a life time!