How do you release your sexual desire?

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Thanks for all replies.

Hm... sex with wife huh... Sometimes it's OK, but most of the times, I have sex with her just to prove to her that I still find her sexually attractive.

I don't 'enjoy' it very much, but I like the calm and peacefulness feeling I get after I do it with her. She's more relaxed and much less edgy after sex.

Honestly, I think my wife is pretty bad at sex. She doesn't give me blow jobs, she doesn't let me eat her pussy, nothing. We just do it like a monk and a nun.

HOWEVER,

It's not like I'm very sexually active either. I can go weeks... months without sex... with another person. I can just live with masturbating to various porns and I can keep myself horny by jacking off at oddest of places.

But lately, my wife said something that made me feel uncomfortable about masturbating.

She said (in a sarcastic and pissed off tone),

"You have sexual urge, but you don't think of me... you'd rather jack off than have sex with your wife."

So after that, jacking off lost its thing... Just thinking about jacking off makes me feel uncomfortable. And after that, I lost all my sexual desire.

Suddenly I feel like I'm in a therapist session........

But really... I need to vent....