How do you release your sexual desire?

[foreskinlvr]

I have a long term gf and I masturbate almost everyday and have sex around 3 times a week. I would have sex more, but her libito isn't too high, but its increased as of late which is nice. I've never cheated in any way and don't ever plan to, but I do enjoy looking at porn quite a bit which can fulfill some of those darker fantasies.

Sounds like you need to figure some stuff out. Is sex with your wife still fun? Are you turned on in the moment? Maybe you guys should go to a sex therapist or try some new things.

[jodarling]

Partners been few and far between at the moment so I mainly masturbate over this site.

[kilgoretrout]

Lots of self gratification looking at pictures of shemale oral.

I would love to have another shemale encounter, but I do not like using pros and do not know how else to meat one.

[paulmal32]

Sounds you are depressed and have low libido. How old are you? Have you ever had your testosterone levels checked? I was sort of the same way and I started using T and everything is so much better. My BP and resting pulse rate are down my libido is at an all time high. Life is much better

[WudLuv2try]

Thanks for all replies.

Hm... sex with wife huh... Sometimes it's OK, but most of the times, I have sex with her just to prove to her that I still find her sexually attractive.

I don't 'enjoy' it very much, but I like the calm and peacefulness feeling I get after I do it with her. She's more relaxed and much less edgy after sex.

Honestly, I think my wife is pretty bad at sex. She doesn't give me blow jobs, she doesn't let me eat her pussy, nothing. We just do it like a monk and a nun.

HOWEVER,

It's not like I'm very sexually active either. I can go weeks... months without sex... with another person. I can just live with masturbating to various porns and I can keep myself horny by jacking off at oddest of places.

But lately, my wife said something that made me feel uncomfortable about masturbating.

She said (in a sarcastic and pissed off tone),

"You have sexual urge, but you don't think of me... you'd rather jack off than have sex with your wife."

So after that, jacking off lost its thing... Just thinking about jacking off makes me feel uncomfortable. And after that, I lost all my sexual desire.

Suddenly I feel like I'm in a therapist session........

But really... I need to vent....

[foreskinlvr]

Well, it definitely sounds like your not in the most ideal sexual state of your life.. She shouldn't make you feel bad about masturbating, if you're horny you'll get the urges out one way or another. I'm definitely no therapist, so I definitely don't know everything about relationships, and don't want to give you that impression. All in all, it seems to come down to the fact that you're just not being fulfilled sexually. Sex can get boring in a long term relationship even with oral sex and trying to be spontaneous, let alone the situation you're in. I think the sooner she knows that things need to change sexually between you two the better. For me, if my gf and I don't have sex at least occasionally (once a week or so), the sexual frustration builds up for me and we get irritable with each other. I think if you're wife is willing to hear you out and potentially step out of her comfort zone to make sex more interesting, you'd be on the road to a better sex life. Good luck with everything, I don't envy your position as I think its going to take a bit of work to get things back on track.

[avrilfuck]

Actually, masturbate.
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I miss them