Married but into shemales?

[Be_my_nude]

Secrecy, Guilt, Lust, Dreams. Do all these have to be realised for you to have a ' complete ' love life ? You think you know the person you are with, but apply the can-opener to their perceptions of you and you risk infecting your relationship with a super-bug.

It's all about maintaining and respecting another person's privacy. If they keep secrets, then it is what they need for their own security. And as for yourself, don't fart in the face of another person's feelings for you - you might presume too much on their good nature !

By all means tell us on the Forum - much safer that way.

[megalops]

I'm married and strongly attracted to T-girls as well as feminine gay men. No, my wife doesn't know. But then, I have yet to have sex with a T-girl and last had sex with a guy 25 - 30 years ago. Because of my job (medical social worker) I've met several pre-op T-girls but have to keep a professional distance. (Which is difficult at times.) Don't know when or even if I'll ever fulfill the fantasy because I tend to put friendship and connection first over sex first. And I have little interest in a professional.