Something for the guys

[Creedence]

Originally Posted by Bionca

4) Even guys who are surrounded by the hottest TGs in the world (Grooby) get married to cis women to settle down (not exactly sure why that bugs me but it does)

I think I understand why that would bother you. The guys who are surrounded by the most gorgeous T girls don't have a problem having sex with them and making money off of them yet they still won't consider a relationship, is insulting.

As if shes good to fool around with but not to settle down with even though they are still beautiful people.

[Bionca]

Originally Posted by Creedence

I think I understand why that would bother you. The guys who are surrounded by the most gorgeous T girls don't have a problem having sex with them and making money off of them yet they still won't consider a relationship, is insulting.

As if shes good to fool around with but not to settle down with even though they are still beautiful people.

I actually have no business voicing my trouble with another person's relationship. It's none of my business who he married and why. Projecting my own insecurities on another's relationship isn't cool or fair.

[Bionca]

One thing that does bug me about the articles is that no trans women were actually interviewed about this.

It also makes it seem that things have actually gotten better for trans women because of this new attention. From a living the life perspective, "Tranny cumsluts 12" does nothing to improve my life. As long as the people watching it turn around and remain silent when legislation to provide equal treatment for trans women in employment,housing, and accommodation is allowed to degenerate into a discussion of the fears of cis women in the bathroom.

Also from another personal perspective, I have no investment in maintaining a man's identity as heterosexual. Getting freaked out and seeking validation of one's hetero-ness implies that something is wrong or bad about being perceived as gay. That is something the articles went way way way out of their way to assure, rather than address the underlying problem of anti-gay bias.