Does liking shemales make you gay?

[happy69]

I am not attracted to men, in fact watching men kiss each other it is still kind of yucky. Swishy guys giggling and singing show tunes is not my thing at all...well, OK, I do like the show tunes. But lots of hair in way too many places, not enough curves...just not appealing.

There is also a mind set of men...gay, straight, or bi. I have met some t-girls that still have this male mind set but for the most part T-girls seem to act more like brash women than gay men and many here in Thailand are not even brash women. I remember a line, "If it looks like a duck, sounds like a duck, walks like a duck...it's a duck." I think this is pretty much accurate for describing T-girls. They look like women, act like women, and apparently feel like women. What are they? They ain't ducks... If this duck analogy is true, it falls in line with how I personally feel about sex with men and sex with women. Men yuck, women please.

I think society in general still wants to see the sexes in black and white, man or woman as was pointed out in an astute earlier post. A huge portion of Society (and religions) still view sex as primarily, if not solely, for procreation...not recreation. T-girl sex is not going anywhere when it comes to making babies (although I do keep trying ). It is strictly recreational sex (of course we know it can also be much more; love affection, commitment, and all the other things that go into making up a human relationship). Society in the West still has big problems with baby making sex between genetic men and genetic women...look at the bizarre aberrations that religion has imposed upon sexual relations now and historically! Sex is important and powerful and, as such, it gets lots of attention from folks that want to mold society...usually repressive attention sadly.

I digress. I actually feel t-girls (the majority anyway) are more women than women. GGs are born as girls and just grow up with all that that entails which makes it easy to take for granted. T-girls have had to work hard and have a strong desire to be women. They are studied in the ways of femininity where GGs just ...are. I personally feel that all this effort to become a woman gives them the right to be women and the right for me to see them as women. There is a MAJOR difference between a fem-boy and some dude in drag...even a gay guy in drag. A ladyboy is a woman in her mind and acquires the trappings (and now body parts ) of a women externally. Does one little Y chromosome make that much difference over choice?

So all that being said, are you gay if you love T-girls? Hell, if I know. I'm pretty sure I'm not, but I'm not dead yet and I really hate to predict what path my life will take.

[timhaas]

Well I think if you're gay, you love men, not ladyboys, isn't? Surely, there might be a part of gay men who also love LBs, but the majority of gays prefer men, not girly boys or shemales, I suppose.
P.S. I tried to vote but couldn't. There's maybe smth wrong with the poll.

[Hedonistman]

This ? cums up often and everywhere,,, but it's kinda silly. Nothing makes us gay or st8, we each ourselves decide.